I got a girl I like to come study with me any advice?

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If you see my other topic diff. girl but same prob I'm really nervous and want to get to know her we only just met in class and I asked her to come study with me today. Its 1:48 cant sleep so nervous I want to ask her to lunch at the BK near school but dont know how to go about it. And worse than that I dont know if I can say Hi even because I'm always nervous about that when I dont know ppl well so they end up thinking I dont like them. Any advice on how to stay calm or anything useful is much appreciated.

Confidence is probably the most important thing.

you could say, 'Hi - look, I'm really nervous, because I like you a lot, but I do also want to study. So that's why I'm acting wierd - but I promise not to attack you or try to make you do anything, so let's study.'
It won't work unless you really do mean that you won't try anything other than studying with her.

she might blow you off right away and leave, but she might also think you're really cute and give you a little while to get over being flustered and you'll have a whole night studying with her.

She already tried to play footsie w/me in class course didnt notice at the time sadly inexperienced but having her foot rub my leg did stand out in my head just inexp. so im scared of how to go about it

I learned if you want a good study partner, make sure some good study actually gets done!
other wise it's a date with books.

Merle

What's her personality like? How often is she, or do you think she's hit on?

One time an attractive girl asked if I wanted to study with her for final exams. She ended up being about 20 minutes late, so she said she'd take me out to dinner afterwards to make up for it. I accepted the offer. We did very little studying! We had more of a "get to know each other" conversation like you would normally do on a 1st/2nd date. At dinner, we talked more and talked about movies and DVDs, and then we ended up going to the store so she could buy a DVD player (she didn't have one yet), and then we went and rented a couple of movies and then went back to her place to watch them. That turned into a six-month relationship.

So, I guess my advice would be: show up a little late then tell her that you will take her out to dinner to make up for it. Do very little studying. Get to know each other. At dinner, if everything is going well, invite her back to your place for a movie.