you're 14? I can feel for ya, even though I have grandkids your age...
first, there are no 14-year-old women.. don't believe the hype...nobody, NT or AS, is a flashing, debonair womanizer or mankiller at that age. They'll start that at 17...which is problematical even at that age...
This is a time where people figure things out; what turns them on, how to act around folks your own age, or younger. I seem to remember all the girls at that age wanted older guys...but I'm sure that's changed in 30 years...
You have a whole life ahead of you. You're just starting out, everyone feels a little discouraged at that age. Believe it or not, the girls are just as scared, hopeful, and crazy. Just be positive, interesting, funny, and confident, and they'll come flocking to you. Or at least learn how to fake it, that's what a lot of us wound up doing...