Do any of you know how to Find love?

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Durfdo
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23 Feb 2008, 5:06 pm

all relationships in my 14 yr. old life have all turned out horrible. :cry:

How Do I attract women my age, and how do I keep them for a long time? :help:



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23 Feb 2008, 5:39 pm

you're 14? I can feel for ya, even though I have grandkids your age...;)

first, there are no 14-year-old women..;) don't believe the hype...nobody, NT or AS, is a flashing, debonair womanizer or mankiller at that age. They'll start that at 17...which is problematical even at that age...;)

This is a time where people figure things out; what turns them on, how to act around folks your own age, or younger. I seem to remember all the girls at that age wanted older guys...but I'm sure that's changed in 30 years...;)

You have a whole life ahead of you. You're just starting out, everyone feels a little discouraged at that age. Believe it or not, the girls are just as scared, hopeful, and crazy. Just be positive, interesting, funny, and confident, and they'll come flocking to you. Or at least learn how to fake it, that's what a lot of us wound up doing...;)



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23 Feb 2008, 5:40 pm

1. Love cannot be found manually. It finds you. It happens. It is not found. It cannot be synthesises in a lab or a formula be written.

2. Very few people are actually in love at 14.

3. There are no 'women' your age, only girls.

4. Relationships at that age rarely last very long, and if they do, you're doing pretty well for yourself. Don't worry if all your relationships at age 14 are short. It's part of the process.



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23 Feb 2008, 6:55 pm

Well, since you're 14, it might not happen for several years, but that gives you time to figure things out. Many of us end up with someone at least a little older, but no matter what age she turns out to be, I would advise that you don't act like someone you're not. Be yourself, and use this time as a time to become a better version of yourself. Don't act like someone else, just take those things you like about you, and make them better, and gradually improve on your weak points. That way, wen you find her, she'll love you for who you are. Lots of people think I'm weird, but I found the perfect husband for me because he knows the real me. And give it time.