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LastSpartan300
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24 Feb 2008, 9:16 pm

this is my first post on wrongplanet and i wasnt sure where to start so i wanted to combine my recent problem and my introduction in one post
im 21/m/LA and i have aspergers adhd and explosiveness,my big trouble right now is trying to gain relationships/friendships mainly because i really cant keep a conversation and my emotions are to unstable and i get attached to everyone i would really like some advice on how to gain my ground with groups of people so i can gain more friendships



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24 Feb 2008, 9:23 pm

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24 Feb 2008, 9:39 pm

take a deep breath. There, that's better. You're among friends...
welcome. Hang around, and you'll learn all sorts of things...



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24 Feb 2008, 10:18 pm

Welcome. I really don't have any friends in real life, either, and I feel my family to be total strangers with whom I have nothing in common...


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24 Feb 2008, 10:41 pm

Hey Ray



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25 Feb 2008, 9:34 am

Sounds like it's the ADHD that may be causing a lot of your issues with friendships (the "I get attached to everyone" is what makes me think this - sounds similiar to what I've read in regards to ADHD, that they often are too intense in a relationship).... I'm not one to generally jump on the "cure it" path, but have you looked into meds for the hyperactivity? Let the flaming commence :P



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26 Feb 2008, 12:08 am

it really is oki probly am very intense with who ever i start liking its mainly because of how insercure i am and how much bad luck i go through but i mean with me i have such intense emotional problems that i thought others would be able to level with me and understand,i would have never believed that half the world are afraid of the truth and cower behind there emotions when they meet someone that really has gone through so much of the same



i mean yea alot of people just act like they have had problems to feel like there fitting in and etc but i thought maybe out of my intire state of louisiana there would be one girl that i could connect with and we would really see eye to eye and be honest in the fact that mine and her problems could be more like fate meeting to help each other