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Is my obsession worrying or is it ok?
You need help 20%  20%  [ 2 ]
It's a bit worrying 60%  60%  [ 6 ]
It's fine 10%  10%  [ 1 ]
No need to worry. It's natural 10%  10%  [ 1 ]
Your obsession is funny, but cool 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 10

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08 Mar 2008, 10:16 am

I'm not saying who, but it's someone who can be considered famous. Yes, I know I made a thread about this before, but I feel like going on a super rant! Seriously, don't get mad when you read on. I can be worse than this.

She's so beautiful, lovely, cute.
Her voice shines wilted flowers.
Her voice shines wilted me!
Her personality couldn't be better.

I love her.

I never can get enough of her.
I get confused.
Everything reminds me of her.
It's hard to move on.
It's complicated, but I'm happy.
I listen to her songs all day.
I stare at pictures of her all night long.

I love her so much! xD


I'm planning to write a song about it.



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08 Mar 2008, 12:26 pm

Say who it is.

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08 Mar 2008, 12:30 pm

Don't worry, I plan to change my signiture soon and I'll mention her name in it. Anyway, about this situation of mine... what should I do?



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08 Mar 2008, 12:38 pm

Look into a career as a paparazzo.

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08 Mar 2008, 12:45 pm

Dracula wrote:
Look into a career as a paparazzo.

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Good suggestion. :lol:

Fintan29, I don't think that there is much that can be done, I'm afraid. :? There is nothing wrong with feeling this way, as long as you can accept that it is highly unlikely to come to anything. And don't start stalking her...you can get in trouble for that.


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08 Mar 2008, 3:26 pm

I see what you mean now. Yes, it's not that I would stalk someone though. If I was to, it would be accidental. >_<



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08 Mar 2008, 4:01 pm

Fintan29 wrote:
I'm planning to write a song about it.

I hope this isn't considered stalking. Is it? I'm also planning to write a story. XDDD



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08 Mar 2008, 8:30 pm

I decided to add a poll. I'm hoping that I get votes because it would give me a better idea of my huge obsession with a famous person.



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08 Mar 2008, 8:35 pm

I voted for a bit worrying. I do not really mind you liking the famous person, even writing about her is okay. But it may interfere with your real life. It is better to admire someone in person I think. The famous person is okay but not real for you and therefore probably safe. Your real life is more important though...

says someone who messed up his own love-life.



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08 Mar 2008, 8:46 pm

Hanwag wrote:
I voted for a bit worrying. I do not really mind you liking the famous person, even writing about her is okay. But it may interfere with your real life. It is better to admire someone in person I think. The famous person is okay but not real for you and therefore probably safe. Your real life is more important though...

says someone who messed up his own love-life.

I really wish I knew this girl in real life. She's has everything. She tends to be created to be my dream girl. I sometimes try to resist, but I can't. I want to have something called lucid dreams and live a great second life there. If you don't know what a lucid dream is, search it on Wikipedia.



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08 Mar 2008, 10:05 pm

Somebody said that I need help. What kind of help? ;/



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08 Mar 2008, 10:31 pm

Maybe you're looking at this the wrong way. I think most of us find somebody famous attractive. What makes us attracted to somebody is the traits they possess. Why not look for somebody more attainable that has some traits in common with this famous person?



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08 Mar 2008, 10:51 pm

You don't understand.



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08 Mar 2008, 11:07 pm

Even though I think she has a boyfriend, I'm still really obsessed. I must lucid dream. I still am really obsessed with her and still love her so much!



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08 Mar 2008, 11:46 pm

My friend, I understand completely because I've been there. You're totally obsessed with something unhealthy and you need to rethink this. You're going to self-destruct if you keep thinking the same thoughts.



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08 Mar 2008, 11:54 pm

Complex wrote:
My friend, I understand completely because I've been there. You're totally obsessed with something unhealthy and you need to rethink this. You're going to self-destruct if you keep thinking the same thoughts.

Nah. I think I'll be fine.