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Theres a girl I've been talking to who when we talk it eventually goes to stuff like our child-hood or growing up or whatever and well whenever I mention something she always seems to have had a very similar experience to mine (hairs breadth difference) and I was wondering if maybe that was a sign she liked me or something or if it just meant we have a whole lot in common (which is still awesome b/c she's really cute ) just thought I'd ask.

Jeeze IDK... if you find out let me know because I find it impossible to read people and know how they feel and how to react, it sucks.

I wish ya luck man, go with your gut feeling I guess... screw logic and thinking, see where it goes is all I can think of.

It means that if the spark is there, then because you have a lot in common, it's a good basis for a relationship. You might want to pay special attention to this girl.
Is she the redhead?

I'd say you have a start. From other threads, some limited 'real life' experience, etc., people who are attracted to each other tend to 'mirror' each other. Now if you can get her to talk about adult things....

She is A redhead taller and more *developed* (think I might have a thing for them) she's the one in my club that I've known for about two semesters now, we've only really just started talking this semester. I'm pretty sure she knows I like her b/c she's the one I said in the other thread about online flirting and stuff (she hasn't been getting my emails friggin yahoo) plus the first time we ever talked last semester she kept *mentioning* her boyfriend only that one time last semester though.

And she sat next to me in the library on tuesday and we talked about club I suggested she join facebook so I can keep in touch with her b/c e-mail doesn't work but the school blocked it when we tried to open one for her, and she doesn't have easy access to the net at home. I have alot more details I could add if you think it might help.


I haven't seen the other one the "little redhead" (prefer petite b/c she's cute and tiny) since I first said hi she wasn't in class and well it's only been like two class days so I dunno people have stuff to do they aren't all regimented like I can be she might be sick or something I dunno.

Hmmm....the lack of email could be a dodge on her part, don't know enough about her though. Just talk to her as much as possible at school for a few weeks and see what happens.

No my email doesn't work for all people my instructor can't even send me any and she tried twice to send me some and didn't get either. And my advisor doesn't seem to have gotten my emails either. Plus she was sitting next to me when she checked the email and asked me what it said b/c it wasn't there. And I only sent one flirty email and she replied to it.

Yahoo just seems to jack me up alot I'm gonna try my school address from now on though. When she was leaving she asked me if I'm in the library every morning b/c we've seen each other there twice b4 and I told her ya I get up at six everyday and she said she does too normally. It just seemed to me that she was hinting at being there more I mean she did try to let me help her set up a facebook just so we could stay in contact better. And like I said SHE sat next to me when my back was to the library entrance I would have never known she was there if she didn't walk over and sit next to me.

Only issue with the talking more with her over time is I get impatient b/c I won't see her in the club but every couple of weeks so I can't get to know her that way.

Perhaps you should ask her if she wants to study with you or hang out with you at the library. Trust me, I'm a librarian, and the library can be a cool place to hang. I've had many of my most intense romantic moments at the library.

Thats what I was thinking, I was gonna ask her to help me make a speech for my speech class and that way we could spend a little time together alone that wasn't rushed b/c of a morning class or a club whatever. Plus I'm really bad at speeches and need help on it really badly, I just really want a way to ask her to spend time with me w/o seeming odd. We have a club meeting on Tuesday and the speech is on Friday (god I'm gonna fail I know it I really put stuff off to long). I even need music to play in the background for it jeez. If she did say yes and we arrange for a time near lunch would it be a bad idea to go to BK for that or go somewhere else all assuming she even says yes.

Oh and we don't share any classes that I know of.

Sounds like you're on the right track. Good idea taking speech class BTW. Public speaking helps with confidence.

Should I ask her by e-mail to help me or wait until the club meeting? I'm already going to send her a message and was just wondering if/how I should do that.

take it slow and easy man,
enjoy the trappings of involvement,
just be careful, make sure she is not baiting you to use you, its easy to bait someone by saying similar experiences, let her lead the conversations.
it may even be wise to let HER show she likes you by her giving the suggestions for you to follow,
its like letting her wag her tail at you to follow, let her, she will if she is interested.