How many AS guys chase women in bars?

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Anyone?

Not I

Despite the fact that I am atheist now but I was a muslim one day and I was raised by a muslim family.
In short , my body is not used to alcohol. Tried it as adult but I couldn't stand it.

Not so much in bars. I think nightclubs are better for hunting.

strangest thing; chasing women in bars will only get me the attention of the bouncers....now buying drinks on the other hand...

It doesn't happen deliberately but it does happen easily. When I'm out, I'm usually buzzing pretty good - I'm putting off a vibe, I'm having fun, and women seem like they're more interested in talking to me even on their own.

I never had to chase women in a bar

Alright not a guy but I use to get a lot of attention from guys in a bars, and clubs. That was the best way to meet a guy wasted. Now that I'm clean and sober, I can't really handle any places pertaining to drinkers espeacially bars.

I have very low self esteem.

The one time I tried chatting a woman up in a bar her husband showed up and started beating the hell out of her (he didn't touch me, incidentally. In fact he offered to reimburse me for the drinks I'd bought her ).

That was almost a decade ago now, and I haven't tried it again.

Well, he's acknowledging the fact that women have a free will after all.
Gender equality shows itself in strange ways sometimes. . .

I've only picked up a woman from a bar one time. That was only by chance & only because she initiated chatting me up showing clear interest. As far as being the proactive one, I've found that it never works as I'm seen as a wolf & given the cold shoulder. Guess I'm just not enough of a bar/club guy to be more successful there.

The guys I've known to do very well with women at such places really embody the scene there. They dress, talk, act, & simply are the textbook model of what you'd picture a guy at the place should be. Seems women going to a bar or club is looking to have a good time doing what people noramlly do at those places, even though they may not be part of the scene themselves normally. Guys that embody the scene naturally fit into that good time.

Sounds like he felt teaching you a lesson (for something you may or may not have been aware of) was completely useless, would have made him a complete as*hole - and on the other hand she knew exactly what she was doing. To me though, having to sort a woman out like that just goes beyond reason; as in the only way I could see any rational in that is if she really had her hooks in his life (ie. had his kids, had his bank accounts, it would take months if not years to finalize the divorce, and she could do irreparable damage in that time). At least thank god you aren't that guy. Its just another reminder of why I'm so cautious about who I want to spend my time with; bad situations can even do that to good people and I'd never in my life want to be in that position.

lol! Bars and clubs are the worst place to meet women. They're usually pretty drunk, stupid, and have too many emotional problems.

The bar scene is if you want to get laid...that's what I've been told.

Normal women are there too, far more often than not with friends - possibly to meet other guys in the same situation who they spot as having some amount of class (I don't mean small dives though, more the types of places that have maybe 75 or 100 people packed into 2 or 3 bars with a good dance floor). It seems like its one of the only ways most people seem to really get out and get to know each other these days.

That would be in the club. If you go to something more laidback like a pub, chances are the girls you meet there are at least less of a bunch of stupid barsexual sluts.

I don't chase women in bars, but if I happen to see someone I'm attracted to at a nightclub I -might- say something, but it usually won't be much. Most women are taken in the club I go to, and most of them are too old for me.