Great the girl gave me her cell number now what?

Post Reply New Topic

I really didnt think this through. THe girl gave me her number after 3 days. SHe wants to talk with me. I got her now what the heck do i do with her?

I'd just call "assuming you know what times are ok" and start talking like "hey how you doing" and move on as though it were anyone else and get to know them.

Call her up, ask her for her email address, and converse electronically.
Works for me.

I got little bit a of problem. i been certain medications that have made my
social skills even worse than normal. they also nixed my sense of humor and creativity. i have got depression. how do i not come across as like im a psycho?

first, see your doctor about side effects of your medications. Second, maybe get together a friend, and have a double date, (or whatever they call it nowadays; hooking up?... See how it goes.

I find a dark sense of humor goes well with depression. ...you have to be careful with it though, only about half the people I come across appreciate it.

...the creativity loss is a sucky thing..


How were you coming across during the three days that convinced her to give her your phone number?

I would suggest continuing this... she seems to like it.

Get her to talk about herself and then listen. You can start off by asking her questions like this..."What do you like to do?" Good huh. If she asks what do you mean, you can say, "In your spare time what do you like to do." See that sets up the stage for you then knowing what the two of you can do on yuor first date. If she says, "I like movies." Then you can say, "What kind?"......See, then you can ask if there is a movie she'd like to go see with you. If she says she likes gardening, you can ask about that, if she likes the zoo,rollerblading, anything, that can then give you lee way for conversation it makes the ice break so much smoother. Hope this helps.

I space out when talking to girls past 2 minutes if she isn't talking about something I find interesting.