creepiness! (kinda funny, kind horrible)

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So I'm gay, and from about fifteen, creepy guys have been trying to pick me up in bars, and randomly on the street (my friends used to sneak me in or give me fake IDs). I didn't notice it at first, until one of them started feeling me up under the table--that's when I got wise to the fact that they weren't just nice, they wanted to see me nekkid :p Aaaaanyways, it started getting weirder and weirder until I turned 21 and then for almost a whole year not a single scary person has tried to hit on me but! tonight I was walking home, and some guy in a huge blue pickup ("pimped out"--cool lights, tinted windows etc) yelled at me as I crossed the street "Hey Kid!" and I didn't know if he was talking to me so I paused and heard him say something else that *might* have been "Hop in" but I wasn't sure so I jsut kept walking and he yelled "Hey Kid!" again and I stopped on the other side of the street and said, "Yes?" and he said, "Are you calling a cab?" (I was on the phone with my mum as I walked) and I was thinking to myself "why? do you need me to call you a cab? you're in a car...." and I said "No" and he just kept offering and said he was a gay rent-a-car. WHY???? Why does this keep happening to me? My friend said it was because I'm cute, but if I'm so cute then why don't non-creepy people ever approach me? *sigh* just thought I'd share :p

Female perspective...creepy guys have a harder time getting dates so they play the odds and hit on many people.

Glad you can laugh it off..it used to scare me when I was walking on the street and that happened...(Probably watched to many serierl killer movies). When I was a teenager I thought it was flattering,then...not so much,as I realized most of these guys would (or were)screwing their dogs after a couple of beers.

Anywhooo,best of luck getting hit on by the cute guys, one happening doesn't exclude the other(just less of them)even then you got to be careful of gay bashers,,,spooky world sometimes

Hey, I'm from Vancouver too!

That's really creepy with the guy in the truck, but it might have been an isolated incident. There are all sorts in this city. I'm not gay (or male) myself, but one of my gay friends once told me about the phenomonen of "gay-dar", which is the ability of gays to spot their own kind. So even though you may not appear as a typical gay person, there might be something in your manner that you're unaware of which tips these guys off. Or maybe it's just the company you keep--if you are associating in gay neighbourhoods you're more likely to get hit on, etc.

Lol, you look that girly/gay? Because I'm cute but that never happened to me =P

And also, that's exactly what happens to girls! XD

OMG, the feminists will be happy, very happy with this.

PS: Learn karate to defend yourself!! !

I have a male friend who gets hit on by guys all the time. He isn't gay at all. He maybe has a bit of that pretty boy look?
He and I were eating at a restaurant when a guy came up and started hitting on him once. He even got hit on by a guy when he was on a date with his girlfriend.

Non- creepy guys are unapproachable, they're too busy getting hit on as it is.

GAYS STRAIGHTS TOPS BOTTOMS, I guess with drunk guys it doesn't really matter as long as they can stick it somewhere.

FRESH MEAT!

Hey, there big boy. You got a little extra fudge stickin' out!

Need someone to pack it for ya?

Creepy guys are usually desperate, and good-looking men tend to be taciturn around others that they find attractive.. I've had this problem in the past.

Perhaps you should join some martial arts just in case?

Yeah well strangely I don't easily misconstrue those kind of funny kind of horrible interpretations.