Chatter.....

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Do any aspie males or females here have an EXTREMELY hard time keeping up conversation/chatter with the opposite sex? (or same, if thats your preference)

Yes, it's a pain in the a**. I get very nervous if it's a guy I'm really attracted to I come off as mute which is not me, but it can be the same to anyone.

I go blank when I'm nervous and it's the worst feeling.

I can converse with the opposite sex without a problem, but if the conversation becomes romantic I seize up...

Looks like there's only the 3 of us on this thread.

I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing?

I have trouble starting the conversations and I am nervous the whole time but if they talk to me and stay there giving me a chance I'll think of something eventually and keep the conversation going or they think of it, mostly I can continue it once it starts.

The chatter thing well sometimes the girls I talk to don't speak to me so much as they prattle on endlessly about things that have no meaning to me so I get bored and wander off mentally even though they're attractive and we may have a lot in common sometimes they bore the paint of the walls.