Mark198423 wrote:
If you're meeting these people at speed dating events then it's already implied that they're desperate. From what I've seen on the website's people don't just casually drop in, they have to plan in advance - only people with no hope of meeting someone between the booking and attending of the event are likely to go so most would be desperate. I see no reson to hide it there as it's so obvious!
Actually, where I live it appears that even the girls at speed dating events are taken.
Aspie_Chav wrote:
Being desperate is, but not showing it. We live in an NT world where social status is very important. Desperate people are usually not very high on the social pecking order. This is especially the case with men. Have a look at the Ladder Theory.
To quote from 'Dangerous Liaisons' on relationships: 'Vanity is not compatible with happiness.'
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Another thing about desperateness is that they may only be dating you because they will not be alone. When they do find a perfect match, they will be off. Which is just like me. I will settle with an NT but should I find an aspie, I will go with them instead.
True.
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