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Couldnt think of a better subject heading so I just made on up. So there is a guy who lives in my building and is casually friendly, Ive seen him there with his gf for quite some time now. One day as I got in the elevator his gf got in too(WITHOUT him) and I noticed her standing Right next to me even tho there was plenty of room. These last 2 weeks she actually introduced herself and ALWAYS greets me ethusiastically when she see's me; Even if she's with her bf. Now Ive chatted with her a little bit and I notice her being MUCH friendlier with me than with any of the other guys there besides her bf. For some reason, Im getting the feeling that she kinda Likes me..... But she's taken and so not available and Im not so sure Id really wanna come between them....Tell me your thoughts.

No dice, homie! She's just being friendly. A lot of taken women will be really friendly, but there is no chance that she likes you in the way that you're hoping. She's really friendly because she is currently "out of the game". Don't waste your time.

What makes you think I want her anyway.....if she were friendly with everyone and to other guys there it'd be no big deal.
I find it peculiar that shes being ONLY nice to me. I dont like it when people send mixed messages and I have no intention of pursuing her. If she starts wanting to hang out with me, thats another story.

I'm outta here.

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Well even though I'm a girl. Taken into another scenario if I was in your case she definitely sounds like she wants to get with you. It's not common for guys or girls to cheat without putting their spouses into consideration. I had a similar incident but I didn't know the guy I was with was already taken. It was BAD, the guy's girlfriend made it out to be my fault and not her boyfriend's fault. I kept trying to reason with her but she insisted that I was just after him.....odd b/c I'm an aspie so I really don't do well in that area. So sometimes I can't tell.

I guess what I'm trying to say is yes she sounds like she has a thing for you unless whatever these cues are being read wrong. I don't think I would take my chance considering what can happen, but that's just me. Maybe tell her upfront that she's got a guy if she hadn't know already. If you already have I would break it off. I just wouldn't take that risky chance no matter how desperate I'd be. Not to mention, I really disrespect ppl who do that kind of crap to their so-called significant other. It is hurtful to the other person. If they don't wanna relationship with their lover than they should split it before gettn' with someone else. Just think about what will happen if her bf finds out. Although I don't know much about your story maybe they're in an open relationship? Who knows, but that's for you to decide.

It might be that she's being extra friendly to you because she thinks you're shy, or maybe she genuinely likes you and thinks you're easy to talk to.

Oh I think she does Lene. Im tempted to think MissConstrue's interpretation is the most accurate. I mean, I sure as bloody HELL would be QUITE jealous if my gf were to do that with some guy living in the same building as me. I would assume that she likes him as tempted to stray.....So I'll be friendly to her and just see what happens next.

i would ignor it and rember that she's taken.

While she's taken dont say or do anything inapropriate like asking her if shes coming on to you (unless she suddenly pushed u up against a wall lol) dont try and flirt with her. Try not to piss her boyfriend off by doing anything flirty. If you dont know how to act around her pretend shes a really ugly girl friend who you would never wanna lead on in a million years bcoz shes just eww.
thats how i do it.