Meh...So you f****d up...no worries

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Big deal. The more times you get rejected, and get your heart broken, the easier it becomes to simply...not give a flying f**k.

We all f**k up, when dealing with the opposite sex. It has nothing to do with asperger's syndrome, or social cues. Sometimes people are just plain dumb, and we can't beat ourselves up over getting rejected or played by a dumb-ass. Let's face it, dumb-asses do not make good choices.

Let's use some good ol' fashion aspie logic here.

Dumb person makes bad choices about relationships.
Dumb person does not choose to be with you.
Therefore, you are a good catch, because the dumb person made a bad choice by NOT choosing you.

Just try to woo another male or female, and see what happens.

If they're confusing, that means they're dumb! If they're dumb, just say...

NEXT!! !! !! !!

Easy to apply when you get turned down for a hook-up...

much harder to apply when you actually love her and can't see her as a dumbass no matter how hard you try...

How is it that if they're confusing, they're dumb?

I think I see where you're headed.

Here's where I got with that:

(1) I'm looking for someone with good judgment.
(2) If someone doesn't want to be with me, obviously they lack good judgment.
(3) Therefore, I don't want to be with that person.

Ta dah! Works like a charm, seeiusly.

I have issues with fooling myself into believing anything.

Oh, I think I'm pretty cool. I'd date me.

If you wouldn't date you, what would you need to do to become someone you'd date?

.....Someone who could easily be fooled.

should a person ever settle if they never meet a decent person in their life?

This is my theory as to why "all guys are jerks." A guy keeps asking women out and getting rejected over and over and over again, until he becomes insensitive to what women think. Add on to that a culture which tells him that women are just shag-bags, and he's completely numb to them. So by the time he DOES find a woman, he treats her like crap because he doesn't give a good goddamn about her feelings.

Bwah ha!

in the same token though a man that is too open is rejected by women because women fear what that could lead to. They go for the jerks because in their mind they are getting a catch instead of the male getting a good deal heres an example.

my friend who is a nice guy and not imposing was in love with this chick and I met her and she started talking to me. In my school I'm not sure why but people think of me as a lone wolf of sorts and think I'm stand offish though people who talk to me know better the girl started flirting with me instead of my friend who was much more willing to be a partner with her. I turned her down eventually due to the fact that I can't date someone who is not straight-edge like myself.

So true. I find myself in this boat right now. So used to constant turnover & saying "next" that I'm not sure I could stop myself if something good came along. And yes, it is definately a learned behavior developed over time through rejection. And the kicker is, the more shrewd you become and the faster you move, the more women are attracted to you.

The singles scene (not counting those directly looking for marriage) is simply a game. Like it or not, you have to learn to adapt & play it better to succeed.

Not this sh*t again.

And what about those of us that are directly looking for marriage? I'm sick of this "game" BS...