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i have a bit of problem on my hands

i have fallen in love with the guy i only meant to have a few hot months with before heading off to universtiy

i have told him and he feels it back but hes also in love with his best friend.

im also trying to set the two of them up

which is why the no strings attached sex worked so well until my heart took over

anyone got any advice on what i should do??

in my honest opinion? You don't have a problem. It was inevitable you'd "fall in love" with him the second you faced the possibility of not seeing him anymore. You want what you can't have, a common end to the whole "no strings sex" story. Plus the fact that you're setting him up with someone else is giving you self induced jealousy.
You're going to university, and you've got him set up with someone else. What's the problem? You wont be able to continue the relationship, so do nothing.

thanx for the advice
i guess i'll have to sort something out

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well, you agreed to have a no strings-attached sex relationship so you have to handle the emotional consequences.

You can do nothing,move on.

Go to the university, live your life, heal your heart, and for now make it a part of your past. You've laid it on the line and told him how you feel, that's all you can do.

If there is a connection between the two of you it will still be there later when the time is right...right now it sounds like this isn't what he wants or he doesn't know what he wants...either way you lose. Don't play matchmaker if you can't deal with it right now...you have no debt to pay.

Hate to say it...but there really is no thing such as "no strings attached sex"...there's always strings, no matter how hard you try to conceal them.

Take care, and good luck.

thanx to everyone who has given me advice
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