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miss_e
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29 Apr 2008, 11:02 pm

I have recently taken a stroll down memory lane on my past lovers. I feel I have learned a lot of lessons and that I still have feelings for some of my lovers from the past.

Anyone else still in love with someone from their past?


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29 Apr 2008, 11:08 pm

miss_e wrote:
I have recently taken a stroll down memory lane on my past lovers. I feel I have learned a lot of lessons and that I still have feelings for some of my lovers from the past.

Anyone else still in love with someone from their past?


Unless (at least)one of them is still available and open to getting back together, you really need to let the past go and Move On. I dont mean to sound insensitive, but memory lane is a DEAD END STREET :!: Its the ultimate road to Nowhere.
Dwelling on the past can make you overlook new oppertunities until its too late-then you'll feel even worse.



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29 Apr 2008, 11:12 pm

NOPE!! !!


Never had a girlfriend...

...I want to die.


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29 Apr 2008, 11:14 pm

D1nk0 wrote:
miss_e wrote:
I have recently taken a stroll down memory lane on my past lovers. I feel I have learned a lot of lessons and that I still have feelings for some of my lovers from the past.

Anyone else still in love with someone from their past?


Unless (at least)one of them is still available and open to getting back together, you really need to let the past go and Move On. I dont mean to sound insensitive, but memory lane is a DEAD END STREET :!: Its the ultimate road to Nowhere.
Dwelling on the past can make you overlook new oppertunities until its too late-then you'll feel even worse.


I'm not lingering.. its just an observation. I'm still looking forward to what's ahead of me. I've already learned that if I don't look forward, I'll crash into what lays ahead for me.


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So deep, that it didn't even bleed and catch me
Off guard, red handed
Now I'm far from lonely
Asleep, I still see you lying next to me
So deep that it didn't even bleed and catch me
--The Used


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29 Apr 2008, 11:15 pm

psychedelic wrote:
NOPE!! !!


Never had a girlfriend...

...I want to die.


You'll get your chance. I promise! :D


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So deep, that it didn't even bleed and catch me
Off guard, red handed
Now I'm far from lonely
Asleep, I still see you lying next to me
So deep that it didn't even bleed and catch me
--The Used


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30 Apr 2008, 12:08 am

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psychedelic wrote:
NOPE!! !!


Never had a girlfriend...

...I want to die.


You'll get your chance. I promise!


You should not promise things that are not in your power to control. And there are people out there, believe it or not, who actually spend their whole lives without ever getting their chance. And it's not because they are Catholic priests. Many are on this site.


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30 Apr 2008, 2:14 pm

psychedelic wrote:
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psychedelic wrote:
NOPE!! !!


Never had a girlfriend...

...I want to die.


You'll get your chance. I promise!


You should not promise things that are not in your power to control. And there are people out there, believe it or not, who actually spend their whole lives without ever getting their chance. And it's not because they are Catholic priests. Many are on this site.


Not with that attitude. If you go through life thinking you are never going to be with someone you won't. That's what you are attracting into your life. If you go through thinking there is someone out there for you.. they will come. It's the secret to life.. The law of attraction. You attract what comes into your life.


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So deep, that it didn't even bleed and catch me
Off guard, red handed
Now I'm far from lonely
Asleep, I still see you lying next to me
So deep that it didn't even bleed and catch me
--The Used