I want these feelings to go away.

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I have met a really kind bueatiful girl. At first we met because she wanted to study AS and autism. Now I feel we are friends. She is everything I could want in a girl, Pretty, smart, Great sense of humor, caring and kind. I feel we are making a connection. We kid around with one and other and she talks to me like an equal and respects me as an equal.

Heres the problem. I need these feelings to go away. I can't feel this way about someone. I try to ingore them.... They won't go away. I am afraid of getting hurt I can't feel this way. Is there any tips on how to make these feelings go away?????

Don't make them go away. I wish I had a friend/girlfriend like that!! !!

Gosh, sounds like you could have a great person, and beleive me these types are hard to find. I would reccomend continuing what your doing.

Or, if you really wanted not to feel that you care for this girl simply don't meet or talk with her. Just plain and simple. Just tell her you don't want to meet with her anymore. That's the way to do it ifthat's truly what you want.

I recommend telling her how you feel about her. Maybe she is beginning to suspect you like her; maybe she even likes you. She may like refreshing qualities about you that most NT guys don't have.

While I can sort of relate, I still think that if your rapport with her is as good as it sounds like it is, then you have a pretty decent shot. Go for it!

P.S. Unless she's taken

But it's the feeling of blossoming love!

I dunno guys. I think she's great. She Gives me this feeling like I'm not alone in the world. I'm sure she already suspects I like her too. The problem is..... Well I just think she's better than me shes outta my league and I don't wanna tell her cause I am sure I will get hurt somehow.

unfortunately, I concur with your assessment. If she is 'out of your league', then she is being nice as a friend and as a friend alone. You should not lose this. I found myself in a similar situation where I did move toward some sort of relationship / dating and it all fell apart (I too thought her to be too good for me and she was nice and understanding like no one in recent memory).

Tread lightly friend.

Huh? You mean how do I lose myself in my work?

I just really try to shove to the side all pesky/irritating feelings which I think leave me vulnerable and misguided, and then really plow headfirst into my math/engineering homework, my computer games, reading/watching fiction, etc. Be warned this has its drawbacks: It hasn't left me as the most happy or positive of people, and sometimes I wonder if I'm missing some key personality component that is necessary for a relationship, should I ever meet a gal who's right for me. But I do feel successful and have a strong sense of worth.

I can't help you there brother, I still, after 1.5 yrs of no contact, occasionally think about the person I mentioned. Good people are hard to forget. Just realize it won't leave you too easily and take up a hobby like karate or collecting used beer cans to help push it aside.

Meh, I'm still saying to go for it. At least maybe make another move.

Good for you