I have a feeling...

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I think that this girl I know that is supposed to be my friend is getting in my way of getting a girl thats a friend of hers, I might be wrong and I don't have any proof as of yet but I know that she gets mad when other girls flirt with me and snaps on them, and she doesn't seem to like it when I talk or look at other girls. The stupid part is she has a BF she's been with for 2 years and everything, she doesn't seem to accept my advances even though they've been subtle she's never even tried to ask me to hang out with her before and said she had to work when I asked her.

Whats worse it's almost summer in just a few weeks I won't even be talking to the girl I'm friends with until next semester like 3 months from now, and I know that her friend at least finds me attractive and we've talked a few times and they went well but I need this girls help to spend time with this other girl....

I don't know whats going on and the girl I think is in my way isn't mean or bad in any other way so I don't think she's a bad person but this is something I can't afford to have going on while I try to get a girlfriend...


Any thoughts?

Sounds like she's hedging her bets...

Can you confront you friend directly and find out what she says her motives are...maybe she thinks this person is bad for you for some reason, like a "user"? Maybe she doesn't even realize what she is doing, (she maybe even in denial herself and not realize she is trying to sabatoge your chances). If she is a real friend, she should be trying to help you "hook-up" but some people want all the attention and would even be jelous of you having any other friends<----that is usually a kind of person you want to avoid.

I only talk to her b/c she has a BF, I don't give her any attention really beyond that and we've only known each other for aboutt a year in a club we go to together. And I don't even know for sure if she got in the way I just have a feeling she is and I can't do anything about it. She does seem to care when I interact with other girls but she's never gotten mad at me for it so I'm betting it's not pure needless jealousy if it were she'd take it out on me instead. We have fun when were together at the club and she comes to talk to me and everything and we tell stories, I dunno I just want a girl and she has more friends than me mostly girl ones so I figured I'd try to get to know her friends... As for her friend being bad I doubt it she doesn't seem like a bad person either she just seems country to me but nice and if it was that she'd tell me I'm sure, she tells me pretty well graphic stuff I don't expect girls to talk about. She doesn't mind me talking to people or girls in general just flirting with them and that was only once she snapped on that girl for trying to flirt with me though. As an example I told her I was mad at a girl for blowing me off and she said she was probably just on the "rag" and thats why she acted the way she did and told me not to worry about it (she waited until I was alone to ask me why I was mad though so I assume she's not into embarrassing or picking on me or being mean to me)

And I definitely can't ask her straight out we don't know each other that well or well I don't feel like risking upsetting her by asking something like that so forwardly, anyway I'll see her tomorrow and that'll be it until after the summer most likely