The wife/gf's diagnostic attempts....

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You women who come here and ask whether your husband/gf are aspies are weird. A rare condition which is almost unheard.

Who are you , seriously? you come in waves telling us that you believe that your partners are aspies .... there's at least a such thread started by one of you each couple of weeks. I even saw once a whole site dedicated for you.

what the.....

Well well well. I think it's great that guys/girls do this. It means the NT person Guy/girl is looking to understand there mate better not just OMG I left Jack since he showed this this this behavior (UH that's AS) So you left him without KNOWING or understanding him having AS or WHAT AS is! Atleast they are TRYING to understand and not just dumping them which would surely devastate most Aspies because if you guys are like me surely you'd question OMG where did I go wrong and run through your head 1,000,000,000 scenarios of situations you had with him/her (For my case it's my Psychology teacher but I feel I'd do this with a guy dumping me) Trying to figure out WHERE did I GO WRONG! So basically I think IT'S A GOOD THING!

I think the OP is trying to say "if there are so many women around that are talking about boyfriends with AS, why isn't there a woman making me her AS boyfriend". Though feel free to correct me if i'm wrong...

they want to have something to blame on their relationship problems, rather then admiring its them, or the partner, or the fact they're just not right for eachother
they want a scapegoat

I agree there has been alot lately but IMO that and the whole self-diagnosis like the top 2 topics done over and over LOL! (From what I've seen over the years I've been here) LOL!

they just want to feel they're right, or be told they're right and it was the other person's fault
I wouldn't want to be with someone else with AS
believe me I knew a girl
she was horrid

I don't see the problem.

OK, I was one of those women who came here looking for answers years ago. I met this guy I *really* liked but he was not acting like any other guy I'd ever dated and I had no idea how to interpret his actions.

For example, he came over to my house for dinner once and was so bothered by the noise from my electronics (that I couldn't even hear) that he ended up unplugging everything in my living room and kitchen including taking the batteries out of my wall clock...

And guess what? We just celebrated our 2 year wedding anniversary in July and we're in the happiest, healthiest relationship that either of us has ever been in. I owe a lot to the people on the various WrongPlanet forums. I hope new comers are never made to feel unwelcome here. After all, the woman/man coming here for advice may be someone great who's interested in YOU!

I second what the penguin said.