Social_Fantom wrote:
I always had a problem with knowing how fast too fast was and not giving them enough space and I think those were the reasons I blew every chance I've ever had of being in a relationship. If I were to have another chance to be in a relationship, I'm afraid I would blow it again.
yea, but you run that risk every time. doesn't mean you should stop.
i kinda got the voice to shut up by just being open and honest. instead of saying "hey, would you move in with me?" and put a bunch of un-needed pressure on the relationship in it's early stages, i instead said "hey, wanna hear a REALLY BAD idea that i couldn't get out of my head?". i seriously told her my thoughts and she said "yea that'd be a bad idea" and i went "i know right?". in the end it brought us closer cause she was glad i was being so open with her. no pressure, you laugh it off, out of sight, out of mind.
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