Men and their desire to speak for women

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It's no wonder why you can't get what you want.


Based on the topics in the love and dating section of males pretending they know women so well.

1. Not all women want kids.

2. Telling women to quit falling for suave guys meanwhile you think you are entitled to this kind of girl:

is hypocritical or you are taking it out on women here that aren't just like the women you have met in real life is a little insulting:

Also yes I'm aware you are going to come in and nit pick at this model. Either her eyes aren't the shade you like or you prefer pale skin or redheads and brunettes.

3. Yes, there are girls that enjoy video games. Setting the boundaries for what games are considered games like can't be Sims because you heard alot of females play it is stupid. I know guys who play the Sims too! So you want a girl addicted to games as much as you huh? When are you ever going to have sex?


4. Not all women are out to steal your worldly posessions.

Darn it, woman!

I hate it when I can't even find a simple spelling error in what you post, let alone finding fault with what you have to say.

1) Not all women want kids. However, when a woman seems obsessed with the ideas of weddings, marriage, and motherhood on the first date, this induces anxiety in a lot of men.

2a) Telling a woman to not fall for suave guys just because they're suave makes better sense than just warning her to stay away from them all.

2b) Sometimes, a guy will care about a girl without feeling any entitlements for her ... sometimes ...

3) I learned some of the most effective mind games from women, and gained immunity from them in the process. But you are referring to video games ... unfortunately, multi-player games seem mostly about combat, and the best puzzle-solving games are not designed for team play. Even more unfortunate; some guys seem to consider playing a video game with a woman as a form of foreplay.

4) Not all women are out to steal a man's worldy possessions. But I have yet to meet a woman who does not somehow lay claim to some entitlement for her boyfriend's residence (for decorating, living, or both), mode of transportation, or free time.

While there is always some truth to every stereotype, not every stereotype applies to every example.

I do find it kind of ironic that men (and this is not a neurological specific trait) frequently think that women should date men based on their personality or substance and claim they are "shallow" if they don't...yet they are looking for someone that is physically appealing to them.

I'm just lucky I'm not ugly, I guess.

And what's up with all the women who are dying for marriage and babies? A pregnancy would not go full-term in my body for quite awhile and a ring on my finger just means he officially owns half of what I make.

Strong women ftw

Fnord, good response. You are on the right track.

Haliphron, you sound like a psycho in the making "And sometimes you have to Cheat in order to win/be successful in life"

either that or your soul mate could possibly be Tanya Harding.

Alright enough with snarking with you because you do have some good concerns about coming up with something your competition doesn't have. Why is all this social crap competative anyway? It is though so back to reality.

Do you focus on your own looks? Do you smell funny? I hope not. There's the guys that lay on the cologne that is really annoying and vomit worthy. Then there are guys who just shower and smell good naturally.

Just because you are finishing last also does not mean you are actually a nice guy. Also some girls do like guys who finish last because alot of these guys who finish first don't last long in bed at all.

Don't turn into Rico Suave okay? Unlike what you see in the bar scene or wherever it is you see most of the social competition...there are alot of females that been there and done that with the suave guys and are ready to move on but NOT if you are a tire slasher.

I'm glad someone brought this up. The thing is, women are individual people, just like men. There are a number of similarities and cultural trends that exist, but trying to figure all women out based on that is pointless. One of the reasons why some guys claim women are "illogical" is because they always find one who doesn't quite fit into their assumptions about women. They think they have them all "figured out" and then they're proven wrong. I, too, am guilty of making generalizations about women, but at this point, I don't see the use in trying to "figure them out" except as individual people.

3. Yes, there are girls that enjoy video games. Setting the boundaries for what games are considered games like can't be Sims because you heard alot of females play it is stupid. I know guys who play the Sims too! So you want a girl addicted to games as much as you huh? When are you ever going to have sex?

First off , i'd take a cute brunette over her any day , besides i'm always attracted to cute wall flowers , it's just how i am , and i have no problem with it. Sides' i know some woman don't want children , after watch Nanny 911 i can't say i'd totally love having kids all the time either lol

Ok, who said guys were any different? I'm sure many here are not different in this aspect, although I feel I am.

I admit I won't go for the female equivalent of Quazimodo, but my standards as far as 'looks' aren't very high on the charts...