just my luck...

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I just got into a relationship but then yesterday I was at a cafe and the girl working there was flirting with me and very cute. I felt like a fool but she was acting silly too and seemed flustered. Every time I would walk by her she would stare at me and smile. I'm not good with social cues but it was obvious to me that shes interested.

My relationship is going so so. The girl i'm dating seems to like me but i'm not very into her. Opinions? I know this isn't a typical aspie problem but bear with me.

I guess you successfully got into "The Club". Women only want men that already have a woman...

It's unfortunate, but very very true. You can be missing a body part, and still have a small chance with a woman, but if you're showing desperation, you have absolutely no chance whatsoever.

Last edited by Aspie1 on 24 Aug 2008, 1:44 pm, edited 1 time in total.

That's not ENTIRELY true. I would never go after someone who is already taken. But it's true a lot of people seem to be that way.

What exactly is wrong with your current relationship?

^^

I think u're being quiet sexist, to be honest. And about showing desperation, I think anyone actually dislikes that(mostly).
it's not about women or men, it's about each one's personality.

And about the question of the topic, I think u should just get secure about what u want with ur recent relationship, and if u decide to split up, then go for the other if she feels interested.
good luck!

Yes, I can read thanks. I'm just asking for more detail than this.

your 22 you have more than 1 woman after you, you have AS.
no kids no marriage?
just go for it and dont beat yourself up asking our approval.