Why do girls get to just sit around and get guys?

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guys can't just sit around in a bar or wherever an get tons of girls askin them to go out or dance

its laways guys who have to what is up with this crap

im sick of how easy girls have it in the dating world aspie guys its hell for us and its so pathetic im starting to not consider aspie girls have aspergers on the same scale as us guys cuz of this issue alone

its just way too easy for them to still get things going on without doing anything while if a guy does nothing we get nothing lfie aint fair at all i wish i was a girl sometimes would be so much easier to date period.

The answer to your question is today's permissive society has abandoned the restraints which used to stop females from getting too big-headed or selfish.

....I wouldn't want to dance with you Protossx. It's because you're a jerk wallowing in self pity.

It varies, in some towns or countries women have to do all the work of chasing and fostering relationships.

You should move to a place with a shortage of men. It's often big cities where women outnumber men.

So...it bothers you that you are so selfish, is that it?
Try thinking of something else then yourself for 5
minutes will you. If girls have it easier then me,
great. Good for them. I`m not sitting down saying
""f*** them, they have it soo easy, poor me i have
it so bad"". Thats just lame and selfish. Things are
hard for you? Then work on those things, change them,
dont try to change everybody else to make you happy.

"""im sick of how easy girls have it"""

I`ll tell you what i`m sick of, your endless streams of
posts where you roll around in selfpitty and talk crap
about others because you dont agree on something or
think you are all that and then some. That sickens me.
Grow some f-ing respect and understanding, please.
Open your eyes, read a book, do something for Gods sake.
According to your post here, theres alot! of things that
bothers you, i`m surprised you get up in the morning.
It just cant be any fun living like that, why not change it.
Its for your own good. (and every other person you`re
in contact with). You have a choice, keep on complaining
and bitching about things you cant control, or you can
change some things and make it better for yourself.

I'll answer your question with a few other questions.
Why do girls get pregnant and guys don't after a "mistake"?
Why do more girls get raped then guys?
Why do more girls get molested then guys?

Yes in some ways dating is easier for girls then for guys, and in other ways it's harder. Why are you focusing so hard on the small group that has a few things better than you. Ever thought about those 10 year old girls being forced to marry her 4, 80 year old cousins?

Ever thought about those people who have to work 20 hours per day just so support their family?

Ever thought about the people who have it less worse than you and would give their life to trade, no give their life to let their children have YOUR life? Maybe you should think about that before you go scream that your sick and tired of seeing how others have it "better"

I understand how much harder it is for guys, but hating on women isn't going to fix it.

Neither is them hating us.

its like girls who think guys have it easyer ofc they image a musceld rich populair guy its an illusion
i think a fat or a shy girls(whell shy isnt really the right deffenition for aspergers sinds where not shy
but just bad at being social) woulnd be able to get a boyfriend easly to im still happy im a guy by that

I meant in general.

Why do girls get to just sit around and get guys?

I know a guy who’s gay. He has difficulty in relationships. I ask him, “Do you want to be the one who sits on the barstool and looks pretty, giving your phone number to guys, hoping the guy you really want comes up and talks to you, or do you want to be the one who steps up and talks, who asks for the phone number?” He has a choice.

I knew a woman who was very pretty, and I asked, “So when women put so much effort into their appearance, it’s because they want guys to look at them, right?” and she said, “Yeah, but it’s usually the wrong guys.”

Why do girls get to just sit around and get guys? Luck of the draw.

Protoss, you’re really rude in your style of presentation, but you do raise some really good discussion points.

You got to think the feline philosophy. Cats love the people who don't kiss their ass or give them lots of annoying needy attention. Wouldn't you get annoyed too if a whole bunch of girls whom you were not interested in kept constantly hitting on you? That sucks

The reason is quite simple actually

95% of women are innately beautiful/attractive to other women and men.

Men however, have a much smaller number.


It might also be a contributing factor that women in bars/nightclubs tend to wear more alluring/provocative clothing that innately causes the hordes to gather.

Add in the fact that generally, the bars and nightclubs are the only places guys feel safe about approaching a woman without getting mace or stalking charges against us(at least in the US)

Though the guys in those bars are prone to slaps and instant rejection.