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07 Dec 2008, 1:50 am

I'm in the middle of writing what I consider to be the most important message to Destiny I think will ever slip out of my hands.....and I've got writer's block

Are there any suggestions at all?

I really need to say how..a) I'm regretting not spending enough time with her..

B)My total lack of financing, suffice to say.. I can't get you a Christmas gift because I'm broke..

C)My desire to actually start, ya know, dating.....

please... help me!! ! :cry:

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07 Dec 2008, 2:05 am

I take it Destiny is a love interest and not an anthropomorphic characature?

Nonetheless, my advice is to second-guess your motives. Pouring your heart out to a girl when you have not firmly established your romantic relationship will almost certainly doom you to ultimate failure. I know this from experience, time and time again.....

Danny, I jeapordized by confessing my love when she broke up with her long-term boyfriend. I was in the Friend Zone.

Angie, I jeapordized by going too far (driving across the country to see her when she was on vacation) when she told me she loved me over the phone, ruining our relationship forever.

I could say more, but I don't feel like remembering them right now.

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07 Dec 2008, 3:02 am

just a thought; don't mean anything mean by it, but if you're broke, and entering the holiday season, you might give a thought to postphoning until January, although there's never a foolproof way to do this.

Against figuring out women, the gods themselves strive in vain....

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07 Dec 2008, 3:06 am

MiniMozartAspie wrote:

I'm in the middle of writing what I consider to be the most important message to Destiny I think will ever slip out of my hands.....and I've got writer's block

Are there any suggestions at all?

I really need to say how..a) I'm regretting not spending enough time with her..

B)My total lack of financing, suffice to say.. I can't get you a Christmas gift because I'm broke..

C)My desire to actually start, ya know, dating.....

please...

help me!! ! :cry:

First... I don't think a single note should deliver all that. A & C, yes - but B is immaterial. You want to express how you feel, then find something without a price tag to share that with her. One approach might be to start with saying you'd like to spend more time with her, and ask her out - there are things you can do together than don't cost... and that might make a nice Christmas present - something to consider.

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07 Dec 2008, 12:03 pm

Here's write you should write your beloved:

Hypothetical MiniMozartAspie wrote:

I'm sorry we haven't been keeping in touch more. I'm busy, ya dig? I wish we could've started really getting to know each other a little better because you're my Destiny, but we haven't, and that's my bad. I missed the opportunity; I'm a fool; I'm stupid; I fucked up; I have suicidally low self-esteem. You deserve better than me; my heart tells me so. But, Baby, there's comfort to be had in the familiar. I may not be cool; I may not be interesting; it is true that, where there's dog shit, I will mistakenly sit. But you're the only thing I've got going in my life, so whenever you get back to me, Destiny, you know I'll be there, waiting desperately.

Hey, I'm flat broke right now too, so I won't be getting you any kind of Christmas present this year. Sorry about that. I figured a dollar store gift would be too cheap for your radiance and making or doing something thoughtful would require real effort on my part—and we all know that ain't my style. Did I mention your eyes are like a babbling brook on a fragrant spring's afternoon?

In conclusion, let's hang.

Yours in Christ,
MiniMozartAspie

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07 Dec 2008, 12:53 pm

Can't you make her something? Otherwise don't mention the christmas present (it isn't really important), get her a card instead.

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07 Dec 2008, 6:09 pm

0_equals_true wrote:

Can't you make her something? Otherwise don't mention the christmas present (it isn't really important), get her a card instead.

The above is an excellent suggestion. You could make her a card, then write about A and C inside it. I would much rather receive a hand made gift than a store bought present.

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07 Dec 2008, 8:26 pm

NeantHumain wrote:

Here's write you should write your beloved:

Hypothetical MiniMozartAspie wrote:

I should add that, given your avatar, this little touch will really make your hypothetical letter special:

Hypothetical MiniMozartAspie wrote:

P.S.: Giggity!

Add a little picture of Quagmire to the bottom of the letter, right after that postscript. She will swoon.

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09 Dec 2008, 1:45 am

Legato wrote:

Angie, I jeapordized by going too far (driving across the country to see her when she was on vacation) when she told me she loved me over the phone, ruining our relationship forever.

I think the last episode of The Wonder Years was similar to this.

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09 Dec 2008, 2:03 am

makuranososhi wrote:

I would go with this ... it feels pretty right to me.

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