Do you feel guilty of sexual pleasure?

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Sorry if this thread is abit crued, I am a sixteen year old gay male,
when I am intimate with a partner I wonder what they're thinking, if they really want it,
I feel like I can't even touch his body because I don't deserve to, I don't deserve toget pleasure from somebody else,
I'd feel guilty if I held him or put my hand on him whilst we go to sleep etc.
I think it is a guilt issue but it may be fear of being rejected or feeling ashamed,
does anybody else feel like this?
Or does it sound like sombody who is not ready?
Whilst these thoughts go through my head it lowers the mood and my pleasure
Feddback please,

Thanks, Jake

I'm Not a Relationship expert, but I think you've just got to let yourself enjoy yourself, to stop feeling guilty because your doing the same thing people have been doing for thoasands of years; Having fun!

Also if your not still thinking of what their thinking, you could always ask them. ^.^