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Jamesy
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06 Jan 2009, 1:29 pm

3 years ago there was this girl who chased after me but I did not fancy her in the slightest. The problem is though even despite the fact I have not seen her in ages I can not help but feel I was being slightly harsh to her. For instance I ingored her once when she was trying to talk to me. Also I once rolled my eyes back in frustration when she first got to know me better. Should I just move on from this?

I could have behaved this way becuae I myself have aspergers syndrome or semantic pregmanitic communication disorder.



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06 Jan 2009, 1:31 pm

Move on. It's likely that she has hooked up with another guy by now.



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10 Jan 2009, 2:58 pm

I think you should move on, but if you see her again perhaps you should apologise. :)


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10 Jan 2009, 3:12 pm

wow.

you sound like a complete jerk, no offense, but you could of just said something to her then.

yes. move on.


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15 Jan 2009, 9:44 am

Jamesy wrote:
3 years ago there was this girl who chased after me but I did not fancy her in the slightest. The problem is though even despite the fact I have not seen her in ages I can not help but feel I was being slightly harsh to her. For instance I ingored her once when she was trying to talk to me. Also I once rolled my eyes back in frustration when she first got to know me better. Should I just move on from this?

I could have behaved this way becuae I myself have aspergers syndrome or semantic pregmanitic communication disorder.


Sounds like a classic case of wanting her just because she's no longer available/around. It is similar to how many guys show no interest in a girl until she becomes unavailable (through another guy hooking up with her) i.e. they only want her because someone else has her.