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ShadesOfMe
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07 Oct 2008, 5:24 am

does anyone here enjoy kissing? What do you get out of it?



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07 Oct 2008, 6:15 am

I enjoyed the physical bond with another person when doing it.


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07 Oct 2008, 9:31 am

Good question. I'm not entirely sure what I get of it. It's just something that's fun to do. It's a closeness with the other person.



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07 Oct 2008, 9:55 am

I've done it a few times, I guess its the connection that makes it special, until you find out it was a huge waste of time cause the other person wants to hate you later on



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07 Oct 2008, 10:41 am

I enjoy it very much. The Missus is a great kisser, and it feels wonderful ! ! The downside is she almost always tells me that I'm not very good at it.


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07 Oct 2008, 5:57 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
does anyone here enjoy kissing? What do you get out of it?

I really wouldn't know, actually.



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09 Oct 2008, 5:50 pm

Pleasant tactile sensation.



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09 Oct 2008, 5:58 pm

^^ As stated by Rack.

It's all in knowing what to kiss, and when... :wink:


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09 Oct 2008, 6:02 pm

I pretty much forgot how to do it. I don't think I even kissed my mother in 15 years.



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09 Oct 2008, 6:15 pm

Absolutely love it, providing I know the person... strange people even kissing my cheek is highly uncomfortable. But in romantic terms... it's sensual, it's arresting of the attention... thrilling. Hard to quantify.


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09 Oct 2008, 7:37 pm

I hate it.

These days it's done more so for reasons of fun than to show affection. I don't see the significance or importance of it. It's one of those things that just isn't nessecary in life. But you know, it's one of those things where OHMYGOSH EVERYONE ELSE IS DOING IT MAYBE I SHOULD. :|

But hey, to each their own. That's my two useless cents.


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09 Oct 2008, 8:27 pm

It sounds like you care more about why everyone else is doing it than why you don't.



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09 Oct 2008, 11:47 pm

Viddy wrote:
It sounds like you care more about why everyone else is doing it than why you don't.
Me? No. I was wondering what other people get out of it. I like kissing. it's a very pleasant sensation, a nice feeling of connection. But none of that movie kisses, you know the ickt kind they have in the movies, that really grosses me out.



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10 Oct 2008, 1:45 am

I remember kissing my ex boyfriend who was probably as aspie but I didn't know anything about that at the time. We were like magnets to each other and it was too intense. We used to kiss with our eyes open and make out for hours until my face hurt.

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10 Oct 2008, 3:08 pm

well its if you love the other person,
i had my first kiss 5 months ago. it was horrible. i didnt love Him although i thought i did.
he was very controlling and treated me like crap.
My Last.. a wonderful guy i met on holiday.. now kissing him was... wel.. undescrible.. but yeah it was great because i love him with all my heart..
just sharing the love we had for each other was what i got ot of it.
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13 Oct 2008, 4:17 pm

I'd say kissing is an unspoken form of telling someone you like/love them. It can range from sweet and innocent, to full blown arousing. It can vary, but all are signs of affection. I love kisses.


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