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08 Jan 2009, 2:23 pm

I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!

>>>They are not honest, they tell things like it is without sugar coating them. When the don't know they said they don't know. They don't act smart or try to cover up what they don't know or their inadequacies / with lies or false info.

>>>They are not overly sociable which made them so mysterious and cool!

>>>They have a great sense of justice. Most Aspies have a clear notion of what's right and wrong. They don't bend to social pressure or change their stand under social pressure. That's so brave!!

>>>They are so responsible. You can totally count on them to keep and deliver their promises.

>>>They are not shrewd and the don't put on an act. They are bad with lies, sweet talk or hypocrisy.

Aspies are just constantly being pick on or attacked because they are so different! When something is different or good, it's bound to attract a lot of attention, competition, jealousy and even destruction.

I just want all of you know that you are very special and rare and you should totally be proud of who you are. There are plenty like us out there who admire your qualities. So carry your rare good qualities proudly and be confident of who you are! Stand tall! The world needs more people like you. :)

Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties. - Hellen Keller



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08 Jan 2009, 2:25 pm

I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!

>>>They are not only honest, they tell things like it is without sugar coating them. When the don't know they said they don't know. They don't act smart or try to cover up what they don't know or their inadequacies / with lies or false info.

>>>They are not overly sociable which made them so mysterious and cool!

>>>They have a great sense of justice. Most Aspies have a clear notion of what's right and wrong. They don't bend to social pressure or change their stand under social pressure. That's so brave!!

>>>They are so responsible. You can totally count on them to keep and deliver their promises.

>>>They are not shrewd and the don't put on an act. They are bad with lies, sweet talk or hypocrisy.

Aspies are just constantly being pick on or attacked because they are so different! When something is different or good, it's bound to attract a lot of attention, competition, jealousy and even destruction.

I just want all of you know that you are very special and rare and you should totally be proud of who you are. There are plenty like us out there who admire your qualities. So carry your rare good qualities proudly and be confident of who you are! Stand tall! The world needs more people like you. :)

Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties. - Hellen Keller



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08 Jan 2009, 2:41 pm

Missed out an important word "only". What a huge difference it made to the whole sentence! LOL!

I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!

>>>They are not only honest, they tell things like it is without sugar coating them. When the don't know they said they don't know. They don't act smart or try to cover up what they don't know or their inadequacies / with lies or false info.

>>>They are not overly sociable which made them so mysterious and cool!

>>>They have a great sense of justice. Most Aspies have a clear notion of what's right and wrong. They don't bend to social pressure or change their stand under social pressure. That's so brave!!

>>>They are so responsible. You can totally count on them to keep and deliver their promises.

>>>They are not shrewd and the don't put on an act. They are bad with lies, sweet talk or hypocrisy.

Aspies are just constantly being pick on or attacked because they are so different! When something is different or good, it's bound to attract a lot of attention, competition, jealousy and even destruction.

I just want all of you know that you are very special and rare and you should totally be proud of who you are. There are plenty like us out there who admire your qualities. So carry your rare good qualities proudly and be confident of who you are! Stand tall! The world needs more people like you.

Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties. - Hellen Keller



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08 Jan 2009, 2:45 pm

Oh, give me a break......



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08 Jan 2009, 2:53 pm

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So carry your rare good qualities proudly and be confident of who you are! Stand tall! The world needs more people like you. Smile


Well, actually I stand 5'3, is that enough?



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08 Jan 2009, 2:53 pm

She loves you too LP :wink:



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08 Jan 2009, 3:34 pm

To the OP

Uh, WRONG!

You would be the " real and rare " one.
You say our qualties are so good, but they are only as good as you make them sound.
Sadly our qualities are mostly overlooked by the majority of the NTs.
NTs seek other qualities, and guess why? Cause ours is not what the norm wants. If we really were so great as you describe us to be, how come so many of us have never been in a relationship or something else along those lines.

I for one have only been on 1 relation, and that was with another aspie.
If the NTs would be like you, THEN we can begin to talk and agree, bit they aren't, and only few people would think our qualities ( lol, wonder if you can even call them such a thing) are so great



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08 Jan 2009, 3:34 pm

I LOVE GOLD!! (not)



08 Jan 2009, 3:37 pm

I wish there were more people like you. Everyone should learn how to be honest and direct, not sugar coat everything. Not be afraid of hurting someones feelings with their honesty when people ask for their opinion.

I think body language is over rated and I wish people would stop judging people on based on what they wear or how they act.

Eye contact is over rated too and why do people have to look at each other? I know it's something wired in their brains but why do they need someone to look at them? Why not ask them "Are you listening?" and "Did you hear me?"

Yeah I wish people would see the good qualities in us. At least people do for me. I was rejected as a kid but when I got out of high school, things got better. Grown ups don't go around and bully and they treat you with respect, even if they don't like you. So it's hard to tell in adulthood if they like you or not.

Sadly it seems like other aspies still get crap in their adulthood from other adults. I don't even try and get friends in real life and I just keep to myself. Either my social skills have gotten good so it makes people be nice to me or I am just lucky or it's because I'm a woman. That's what I have been told anyway, 'it's because you're a woman."



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08 Jan 2009, 3:38 pm

How many have you met in person, and how did you know they were aspies?


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08 Jan 2009, 3:52 pm

We aspies = the NT Norms third wheel



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08 Jan 2009, 3:53 pm

I'm with Tias on this one.

If I'm so special, then why did I not find a meaningful relationship with a woman until I met one from a completly different culture than my own? (Asia)

Why were all the previous women looking to turn me into something that I was never meant to be? ("You're perfect, now change!")

Why is it that women would complain that they could not find a man with the qualities that you described - which mostly apply to me, as well - only to hook up with men that were narcisstic, intolerant, sexist jerks?

Why do women claim to want the qualities you admire so well, and then completely ignore the very men that exhibit those qualities?


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08 Jan 2009, 4:07 pm

AspieFan911 wrote:
I'm a NT lady who love Aspies. I love them cos they are everything that NTs are not.

Most of them I've come across are mysterious, cool, smart, honest, dependable and have a great sense of justice! They are just so real and rare!! ! I absolutely love their qualities which the world so badly needs!


Are you really serious? Then how come NT's don't sign up on Aspie dating sites? If you're really serious and not trolling then PM me as I'm currently taking applications for new Fans. I personally prefer NTs who like Aspies versus socializing with other Aspies.



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08 Jan 2009, 4:12 pm

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Why do women claim to want the qualities you admire so well, and then completely ignore the very men that exhibit those qualities?



couldn't have said that better.


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08 Jan 2009, 4:21 pm

What do trolls do to find us? D:
type in google: website I can troll in
?

I doubt a person would research to find a site ok the net about something And just make a account and thread just to say this in the OP

So my bet is a troll



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08 Jan 2009, 4:38 pm

Fnord wrote:

Why do women claim to want the qualities you admire so well, and then completely ignore the very men that exhibit those qualities?

That my good sir is the golden question that Im confident will never be answered. Woman change there mind on a penny, so that could be a contributing factor.

To the OP (original poster),

Im flattered! Thanks. I especially like this one:
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>>>They have a great sense of justice. Most Aspies have a clear notion of what's right and wrong. They don't bend to social pressure or change their stand under social pressure. That's so brave!!

So many people now a days dont have a spine to do that.