Too much sex drive?

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After reading another post: WHAT "sexual urges"?! In the teen forum, I am beginning to feel a bit out of place there.

I have sex, I like sex. I like having it with my friends. I like having it with my boyfriend, now that I have one. I have very few inhibitions about it at all. I like the touch. I like the sensation. It's all good for me. (Yes, I use condoms.) I would do a whole lot of things too, that I haven't done. I have done BDSM. Role-Play, and even groups with my friends and boyfriend.
(I can't post on adult, so I am keeping this clean.)


After reading how many people feel asexual I am wondering why I am a borderline slut?


Why I would try just about anything, and so many other teens with Aspergers do not seem to want to be touched at all?

I assure you, there are many people on WP who quite enjoy sex, myself included. You really should not worry about that... just keep up with the condom using.

I am a stright guy, but I was pretty much in the same boat when I was younger. After I turned 30 and dealt with the stress of being a new dad, my sex drive went down a lot. So instead of being bothered to the point of distraction if I didn't get my daily release (it's tough to keep this clean), I could get by on a few times a week.

In some ways I think AS helped me in dating. I was very focused on the girls I was dating.

Then again, I don't thing AS helped me in long term relationships....

I think a lot of us don't try anything due to lack of opportunity. Since I've had the opportunity I've tried all sorts of weird s**t. I think you've just had the chance at an earlier age. Some of us can't stand to be touched, but others are aching to be touched and don't get the chance.

aspies hit the full spectrum when it comes to sexdrive. Though my theory is all humans hit the full spectrum, but NTs do so hate saying they are different from the norm.

My drive is very high, though I don't have a ton of AS symptoms.

I sometimes think sex drive has a lot more to do with gonad size (I have larger than normal cajones), hormones, and psychological makeup (like not being scarred in some way) than AS.

As aeroz said before, AS folks seem to span the whole spectrum. It's just harder on those of us with a high drive, because then we have a harder time getting what we desire.

aarr huh but it has been difficult at times because even though I have a high sex drive - I have suffered from vaginismus and that's not funny! It is an embarrasing condition - it has been for me.