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I have a girlfriend, and i want too show her more affection and too be more romantic, but i dont know too be

Last edited by VR46 on 16 Apr 2009, 2:50 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Write her a poem
Leave her love notes

thank you, i will keep that in mind.

Why not write her a love song,or just tell her how much she means to you

Tell her one compliment every time you meet her. But don't force it. Be honest, don't make it up. If she is ugly and all she has going for her is her hair, than say you've got lovely hair. What color is that?

Look at how she responds for ques on what she likes. Some girls hate compliments. Does she like shaking hands? Does she touch you - ask her if she likes hugs. Ask her if she likes physical contact and maybe you can massage her back. Always ask. Girls often tolerate things they don't like and don't wanna alienate you by telling you the truth.

Invite her for tea at a coffee shop. Note what kind of tea or coffee she likes, and next time get the same thing for yourself and say "I really like this orange pekoe tea." but don't say that if you don't mean it though.

Just remember her birthday and follow up on what she tells you. Rather than tell her things, ask her and then encourage her to talk more about it. That way you two will connect wonderfully.

thanks for your replys.

candlelight dinners (even take out); picnics; do some chores/errands for her; surpise card/gift (without there being a special occation involved; doesn't have to be expensive)...............

Just throwing out some ideas

If you are not much of a song or poem writer, no need to despair. You can just email her the lyrics to a song that reminds you of her and i bet she will love it. My b/f does that for me and it always makes me melt. He isn't the best with expressing his feelings and emotions verbally sometimes, so what he will do at times when he thinks i misunderstood him or got upset is he will search out for a perfect song with lyrics that says what he wanted to say and he emails it to me. I love that a great deal.

Thanks for your reply guys and girls.

Do things for her that have no need for reciprocation, no basis for cause... simply out of how you feel for her. I like leaving notes, voicemails (challenging), writing music or leaving songs on, quoting movies that remind me of her, taking her out for meals and special treats together. When we first met, she took great effort for us to go to the symphony and never let me know the challenge for years and years afterwards... it has always meant a lot, and meant all the more when I learned about what she went through to make it happen.


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Take her out to a classy restaurant, and dress up for the occasion. Or take her out to a fun or romantic (like a beach at sunset, a carnival, hanging out in the backyard at night with a bonfire watching the stars), etc. If you're of legal age (it says you're 18, some countries you can drink alcohol, some, like the U.S., you can't), buy a bottle of red wine and share it with her. I'd personally suggest a nice, light bottle of Merlot or Shiraz, wouldn't take a swig of Cabernet Souvignan or Chianti the first time around Just some ideas.