I am deeply in love with a Gorgeous WP girl ...her name is:

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she doesn't have a name because I was just being lame

Anyways, a question to all ladies here of all ages ,sizes, shapes , categories , classes , education levels , professions, hair colors , political affiliations , AS , NT, crazies , with cooking skills or without cooking skills:

Would you like the idea of a guy who used to ask girls out left and right , for example ..let's say asking 3 to 4 girls per month?

no

You increase your chances of a "yes" by creating rapport before asking her out.

With some of the people around here, I get the impression that they walk into a mall and walk up to girls: "You wanna go out with me? You wanna go out with me? You wanna go out with me?"

That's not the way to do it.

|-o-| V4der |-o-|

No, it would make me feel that the guy was just asking me out just to meet some quota and that he wasn't actually interested in me. Honestly, just don't tell the girls you ask out how many other girls you ask out in a month. That would probably sound like you were desperate and/or were just looking to hop into bed.

And like the last guy said, don't walk up to random people and ask them out. At least have a little bit of a conversation beforehand, or at least say hi to each other a few times?

definatelly not!

Would you like to go out with me?

|-o-| V4der |-o-|

aww, lol

And people yell at me for being too slow to initiate...

Just for clarification, I am not the type of guy who ask girls out left and right.

However, the God of All Aspies is :

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt77685.html

lol i couldnt ask out 2-3 people a month! I've only asked out 2 in my whole life!

You only asked out 80 girls yesterday? That's your problem you don't have a girlfriend.

|-o-| V4der |-o-|

*sigh* The subject lines really are getting a little lame.... and we already have threads on this topic. I'm really not sure where you're getting the idea that asking someone out for coffee once a week is some horrible, terrible thing. I've watched friends line up multiple dates in a single night, so their week is full... Really, really don't understand what is upsetting you so.

To answer the reverse; I have no issue being involved in a relationship with someone who would have asked a few people out each month prior to joining a committed relationship.


M.

correction: 81


I only asked out 3 girls in my entire life ....2 kinda accepted and 1 rejection, been in one relationship for 1 year and half and one in non-mutual relationship for months and that's it.

I would. It wouldn't make me feel particularly special, like they wouldn't mind who they were going out with and they were only going out with me because i was teh first person to say yes, not because of who i am.

I posted that question to alex in the other thread:




In fact , these are the reactions and the responses that I expected from girls before submitting this thread, I knew that It will offend you.
Girls are aware that they are not numbers but members.

*deep breath* I'm not talking about the shotgun approach, or someone who grasps desperately to find someone. I'm pretty sure, knowing who I am, that I am not the first person who has said yes to them. And that, given their own experiences meeting people and finding out what they want, that after all that they choose to be with me - that makes me feel quite special. Chosen, even. Please re-read the last line of my previous post:

I'm not going to be interested or accepting of someone who behaves as my friends have, trying to get the phone number of every woman in the place while setting up their calendar. That's not me. But I'm also not interested, at this point at least, in being the first person someone asks. They have no clue what they want, other than the fantasy... and the two are rarely the same thing.

You feel lessened, I feel chosen. It is a difference in perspective.


M.