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12 May 2009, 3:58 pm
12 May 2009, 3:59 pm
12 May 2009, 4:07 pm
I am. 
12 May 2009, 6:07 pm
Define "attractive" 
I found success in this arena when I stopped hooking up with the model-quality girls. It's an empty path. It took me 30 years to figure that out.
I personally found success when I started hooking up with those who were very, very smart. Smart people don't simply dismiss your behavior as 'barbaric', 'stupid', 'perverse', etc. They actually think about things and try to figure out why you're doing what you're doing. They're open to the idea of "Well, I was doing this because I was trying to be nice." even when it turns out what you didn't wasn't very nice (from a different perspective). They're also good at making suggestions which will help you learn/script NT socialization behavior (if you want) and are capable of taking over socially if you need to get away. Ideal partners, really, if you would like to move in any kind of social circles.
12 May 2009, 6:22 pm
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
12 May 2009, 6:34 pm
MOI
Nah just kidding. I'm 15.
12 May 2009, 6:38 pm
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
Why is it important that she be attractive to all you guys?
Are you saying that guys with aspergers are exactly like yourself?
And to say something like that to drowbot....how freaking rude!
EDIT:
-oops forgot to insert question marks...
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12 May 2009, 6:46 pm
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
woosh!
haha:D
just, woosh!
12 May 2009, 6:58 pm
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
What Zegh said, I think. And that's unnecessarily nasty. Damn.
12 May 2009, 7:37 pm
12 May 2009, 8:08 pm
Orbyss wrote:
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
What Zegh said, I think. And that's unnecessarily nasty. Damn.
Yeah, thats true. I suppose Im a little bitter today.
12 May 2009, 9:36 pm
ViperaAspis wrote:
Define "attractive"
I found success in this arena when I stopped hooking up with the model-quality girls. It's an empty path. It took me 30 years to figure that out.
I personally found success when I started hooking up with those who were very, very smart. Smart people don't simply dismiss your behavior as 'barbaric', 'stupid', 'perverse', etc. They actually think about things and try to figure out why you're doing what you're doing. They're open to the idea of "Well, I was doing this because I was trying to be nice." even when it turns out what you didn't wasn't very nice (from a different perspective). They're also good at making suggestions which will help you learn/script NT socialization behavior (if you want) and are capable of taking over socially if you need to get away. Ideal partners, really, if you would like to move in any kind of social circles.
I found success in this arena when I stopped hooking up with the model-quality girls. It's an empty path. It took me 30 years to figure that out.
I personally found success when I started hooking up with those who were very, very smart. Smart people don't simply dismiss your behavior as 'barbaric', 'stupid', 'perverse', etc. They actually think about things and try to figure out why you're doing what you're doing. They're open to the idea of "Well, I was doing this because I was trying to be nice." even when it turns out what you didn't wasn't very nice (from a different perspective). They're also good at making suggestions which will help you learn/script NT socialization behavior (if you want) and are capable of taking over socially if you need to get away. Ideal partners, really, if you would like to move in any kind of social circles.
This is true. I have a tendancy to be a little sarcastic, blunt, give back-handed insults, and just plain be a smart ass at times...all playfully of course. The average woman would take the things I say as insults, but the smart woman finds these things funny, and can look underneath the surface.
13 May 2009, 3:31 am
13 May 2009, 8:23 am
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
I don't know anything about you, but I wouldn't characterize my A.S. as "mild." It actually seems to be getting worse as I get older. My wife, for whatever reason, always made me feel normal from the day I met her. She's the Elliot to my E.T.... lol She is my first and last serious relationship. It was simply a happy accident.
13 May 2009, 8:57 am
drowbot0181 wrote:
Haliphron wrote:
drowbot0181 wrote:
I am.
Im sure she's attractive in your eyes but I doubt that she's attractive to most people until I see some evidence. For some reason I strongly suspect that your Asperger Syndrome is perhaps fairly mild, or at least compared to MY particular case.
I don't know anything about you, but I wouldn't characterize my A.S. as "mild." It actually seems to be getting worse as I get older. My wife, for whatever reason, always made me feel normal from the day I met her. She's the Elliot to my E.T.... lol She is my first and last serious relationship. It was simply a happy accident.
Ive been told that one of the consequences of AS is something called Executive Function Disorder. I have both an I have to say that to function at the normal level(like brushing your teeth everyday as well as bathing daily)takes A HELL of a lot of work for me.
But on top of AS I seem to have the manifestations of bipolar disorder(mood swings)which for me are getting more and more pronounced with age. Ive never been lucky at love and really havent had a relationship last long enough for even a common law marriage, let alone children.
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