TigerFire wrote:
autisticon wrote:
From there that lead to another debate on what petting was. To me petting is stroking the breasts (over clothes) where as heavy petting would be the same but hand under the bra, or in the crotch (over or under).
Yeah that's well and good but you really got to think about sex should be really the last very last after marriage last thing that should happen. Why talk about this in this forum. That's all I have to say about this.
it all depends on your starting premises... if you believe that there's an afterlife, then this life is just a temporary unpleasant halfway house and you're willing to put up with these fake rules like "no sex before marriage etc", because u know that there's something better than this life "beyond the rainbow" or wherever....
BUT... not everyone has the same starting premises. me, i'm an atheist... so i believe that this life is all we have, the clock's ticking, and it's up to us to make our life here a heaven or hell... and then at the end of life, it's just over, oblivion, white noise, nothingness... i aim to make every second count...
so yeah... my advice to u is, you really should think deeply about your starting premises... there's every chance that the "afterlife" is just a con game, an empty sham... u don't want to be stuck doing what the ancient egyptians did.... squandered every minute of their temporal inheritance on preparing for a fantastical never-never land beyond yonder...
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