mechanima wrote:
Tom,
FORGET stage one...nobody would survive behaving like that around me, or any woman I know...unless we died laughing at him first...
Just keep still and quiet with those gorgeous big eyes fixed on the target until it is time to give excellent "stage two".
Hah, I agree with this. Honestly, I love videos like this because that's what I always want to see on this forum -- it gives a lot of insight into what's wrong and right, and I can tell you, Tom, if you go up to a girl and try to act these things out (well, stage one) it's not going to befit your deeper personality at all.
I can tell with someone like you, if you were to try stage one on me, I'd find it really funny and very possibly at least a bit off-putting. However, if you were to approach me, smile, and strike up some lively conversation when I started to talk back,
that would get my attention very fast. Your physical features also don't immediately speak 'dominant male' at all, either, which would throw me off, personally.
A lot of it is about approaching the right woman; for example, not just the obviously visually attractive ones, the 'alpha females,' but those who have something about their personalities that just gets you. I don't think any AS guy is going to have a lot of good chances if he's only approaching obvious beautiful NT women in the first place.
Really, Aspie guys need to use what they have, honing and utilizing it to their advantage to find the woman that will be just as good for them as they can be for her. I like a guy who knows himself, likes himself, and can give the same in a relationship. It's pretty basic.