Distant From The World,

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Hello everyone.. just signed upto this after i found it through google, and it seemed like a nice place to chat to people with a similar point of view,

Just a little about me,
im 17, from a very small village in ashford kent (UK)
im openly gay, love music & cars

Recently when ive been out with my friends around a few bars and clubs, i seem to feel like i dont fit it maybe go as far to say i feel like im not actually interacting with the world, but observing it from a subjective mind (hope thats the correct terminology) i always feel like im being constantly watched and judged by every single move and action i do.. And i cant seem to get my head around why people care so much about there appearance to others..

Your opinions/views would be greatly appreciated

Dan

Hi and welcome to the Aspie community..

I may live in NZ, but have friends in Kent, UK small world but the Aspie one is global

How odd! Such a small world & thanks for the welcome =)

Welcome, Dan!
I too find bars uncomfortable and don't understand why people care so much about their appearance. So I suppose you do find similar points of view here.

never really liked bars; I don't drink, and I don't lie well...

Nice to know some people can see my point of view, i had a argument with someone the other day about cars, basically it all went down to they'd buy an uneconomical car, because it sounded better and they'd buy it to "pose" in.. that just made me laugh at how people could care about what people thought of them to that extent!