Mienai wrote:
Feel lame after reading this topic, late twenties and do not drive, never have. I feel I would putting myself, and more importantly everyone else, at risk by doing so. Too much anxiety and panic from normal things, plus I can't focus on anything for too long, and one slip would be the end of the car, or me, or someone else.
I have not even tried. Sometimes I wonder if I should, but so much of my world is controlled by fear...
And makes me feel kinda sub-human to boot.
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I would never say not having a license or not being able to drive makes you less than any other person out there. If we look at it from the perspective of living in a society that has an over-dependence on the car, then we are better off, as a society, learning to use public transport, learning to walk or cycle, learning to carpool if we must drive. I myself I am probably the opposite, I find traveling by public transport very stressful, being bounced around inside a big box with strange people, big windows letting in too much light. I find on the contrary being able to be myself in a car rather calming, focusing on the mechanics of operating a car, gears, brakes, pedals, watching out for the other people around me. It allows me to switch off for a while, especially on a quiet road.
To digress however, I think learning to drive is possible for most of us, my first suggestion would be to find a big carpark or dead end road in a rural area with no traffic and learn the basics of gears, steering, etc. Once they become more or less automatic functions, it leaves the rest of your mind free to focus on other parts of driving.
Hope this helps.
john