sinsboldly wrote:
Adriano_O_Ouvinte wrote:
Hello my aspie friends.
Ask me everything you ever wanted to know about socializing, interacting with people, making friends, etc.
I don't know if you know this, but every Aspie on this board not only knows an NT, they probably don't even know another Aspie. So, being an NT isn't such a novel thing to us.
really.
speak for yourself! some of us late-dx'ed and undiagnosed have been isolated, due in part to lack of skills training.
to rephrase my question: gossip--don't understand the tendency to be pleasant/friendly when in someone's presence, then talk about the behind their backs.
is there a reason for this (that you know of?) does the gossiper on some level actually like the gossippee--therefore is pleasant? or is it simply a matter or wanting to maintain an appearance?
is there any point in interacting with someone who gossips about you, in other words?
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