Who has worse disorder in this case? NTs or aspie

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Imagine it.

There is a playground. And there are several children in a playground. One aspie-child and some NT children.
NT children are playing and chattering.
Aspie child wants to play with them. But he can't stand these loud noises. He covers his ears with his hands, to protect himself from noise.
And NT children notice that. Some of them come close to aspie child and start to make loud noises specially for him.
Aspie child is scared, he doesn't know what to do.
NT children see that he is scared. So they continue to make noises, on purpose. They see that he feels very bad, and they make fun of him. They even don't let him go away. Some of them even tear his hands off and scream to his ear. They enjoy it.

And now a question,

if you didn't know anything about NT and AS, how would you answer

Who has worse disorder/abnormality in this case?

Aspie child, who is sensitive to noise?
or
NT children, who enjoy that they can make somebody feel bad, who are happy when they make other person feel bad?


(sorry for my bad English)

Instead of finding something that can cure Asperger they should find something that can cure people who bully others.

I think it's the NT Kids who would be the ones with the problem. And I also hate how us Aspies are blamed for our problems.

I think it would be nice for all aspies to carry around a licensed tazer or a tear gas device. I know it seems like I'm endorsing weapons here, but it doesn't look like aspies have any other alternative. The said self-defense items would have multiple holes, so that the electrified wires or the gas are aimed in three directions (all except the aspie's face). It's a form of crowd control machines that the cops use, only on a much smaller scale. So if the aspie in the initial post could disperse the vicious NTs with a single pump of tear gas, they'd learn their lesson, and he's be safe and happy.

Id say that the NT children have more wrong with them. The AS child is trying to protect himself from something that hurts him. The NT children are getting pleasure from hurting someone.

Now, who was it that was meant to have deficits in empathy...?

Hummm.....Gee, this this is a hard one.

Defintel Nts have a bigger problem here. CAN? CANT would be more helpful. I agree with the tear gas pump idea.


Again, I wouldn't normally endorse weapons but

5 NTs (OFTEN MORE) against 1 aspie?

Let's level the playing field a bit here.

When the system is all for blaming the Victim, the Victim in that case has little reason save for self preservation for following the System.

Neurotypicality is not to blame. It's the self destructive and flawed system. The same one that encourages people to act like sociopaths. The people that follow these ideas will probably harm their own psyche's. A victim victimizing that thinks they are king.

I can't say who will have a worse life. The ignorant NTs, or the person with AS that has to put up with crap at every moment.

Not all NTs are bullies and it seems that the worst Bullies are themselves victims of bullying in their family and/or suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The "little red head" that bullied me was instructed to behave that way by her mom and was brainwashed to look and act a certain way. She developed eating disorders as a child (ironically she was a factor in my own eating disorder) and died in her teens in a alcohol-related car crash (she was the driver). Another bully stopped and we became friends, she had massive family problems that later drove a wedge between us again.
I can (now) forgive a bully, I can't forgive a sheep.