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Clyde
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18 Oct 2010, 11:59 pm

So, tomorrow night I am going to hang out with some friends I made. A guy's night out birthday for me and another friend who's birthday is in October.
I'm extremely excited and a bit nervous. In my whole life of nineteen years, this is my first guys out. I have never done anything like this.

So, all I wanted to do was ask:

How should I behave?

I do get very nervous in social situations. I tend to mess up everything and become a hot mess. I order wrong, I talk wrong. I stutter and sometimes say very abstract and ridiculous nonsensical things.

How do I look normal?



Titangeek
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29 Oct 2010, 11:36 pm

do as the others do(i think) :nerdy:


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30 Oct 2010, 7:14 pm

i would just hang out in the backround, dont get drunk. if alcohol is going to be there let some other clown get wasted and take everyones attention off of yourself.



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01 Nov 2010, 2:07 pm

I had two patterns - hang in the background [my ,most commoin response] OR get exceited and uppity and often wind up doing or saying wat I immediately regret.

Advice - keep calm but enjoy it.



samotny
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01 Nov 2010, 2:29 pm

I'm also want to make a "night out" but 'm has no friends in real life :(