re18 wrote:
I walk super fast and people always ask me why I am in such a hurry. I think it has to do with my social anxiety.
I hold two things to be important here!
1/ Neurotypes are, as a rule,
extremely cautious of "fitting in", as in behaving conformely with their social groups. They don't understand this. They aren't aware of this. But it caracterizes their lifes entirely.
2/ Aspies are often not particularly observant of the person or persons who make us company. Even when we discuss something with someone, we may be concentrating more on the substance of the subject than on the person we are talking with.
In many cases it requires much practicing, and much mental energy, until one realizes that The Other Person's understanding of us is at least as important as the factual content of what we say.
Asking a question like that is a very common way for neurotypes to veil their dissatisfaction with your behaviour. So, when someone (i.e. a neurotype) asks why you walk so very hurrily, they may aswell ponder "why aren't you paying ordinary attention" to him or her. Are you disliking him or her? Has he or she done something recently to cause your dislike?