he told me he "dosent chill with aspies anymore"

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Yup my friend said it when i called him, i dont know what to do or say to him, he stopped texting n all, was my only social outlet really.

He does not sound like much of a friend at all.

weve know eachother since we were like 10 used 2 hang out alot

He doesn't seem like a friend to me.

What a tosser, sorry, but he is.

I had this childhood friend, we spent almost all our time together for a few years. Had so much fun. We've not spoken to each other for 8 years after he refused to talk to me anymore.

Can you try to do anything to resolve the situation? It might work to write him a letter. If I would have done that right after this friend stopped talking to me it might have worked.

Well whoever this guy is, just forget him and move on. He's totally not worth your time and anger. Don't let him bother you!

He's an a--hole, no matter what.

Tell him you don't chill with conceited d-bags anymore.

This.

meh, tell him that neurotypicals are so one-dimensional, and that you feel the need to hang with someone who can keep up with you, mentally.

Sounds like he's using an excuse for his fear of reconnecting.

I dont reconnect either...

maybe he's found the autistic inside of himself and fears that you'll bring that out in the jerk-bag...

better to remember him as he was when you were friends than to think of him as he is now

From what I learned, once a friend of yours drifts away from you, there's little chance of reconnecting.

Personally, I prefer it that way than to be swamped from my past once again decades later.

he told me he "dosent chill with aspies anymore"

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TheSunAlsoRises

Tell him you don't chill with bigots anymore. You don't need to hang out with a jerk like that.

I thought a bit of humor might help.

I suspect your friend has said far worse things inside your relationship( cutting words of this nature are usually not a one time proposition ). You deserve much better and contrary to popular belief "something isn't always better than nothing". Just remember, it wasn't your fault and under the circumstances it could be the best thing to ever happen to you.

TheSunAlsoRises

Seems to me like he said that specifically to hurt you.


Seems to me like you don't need to have anything to do with a douche like that.