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01 Feb 2007, 4:34 am

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I wish people fear me like people fear you.

You'd love that, wouldn't you Unknown? :)



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06 Feb 2007, 10:35 am

I know this little girl who runs away every time she sees me. I never did anything to her. Other people I know avoid me because they don't want to be around a person who acts "stupid".



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06 Feb 2007, 5:45 pm

Yes,but that's just because of my beliefs and my orientation and the way I dress,which is pretty stupid,if you ask me. Well,it's actually more of a "I'm -creeped-out-so-I'm-gonnah-avoid-her" kinda deal.

However,I've have beaten up and threatened some people from my old school recently and they are deathly afraid of me,much to my amusement.


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06 Feb 2007, 10:17 pm

I believe yes, because of the fact that I'm generally very quiet and keep to myself. I am also fairly large and usually have a rather serious look on my face. Also the fact that I wear a leather jacket during the colder months doesn't particularly soften the appeal. The fact that I look fairly imposing really isn't intentional, and I'm basically nonviolent. On the plus side though, I really don't get messed with much, either.


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07 Feb 2007, 9:44 pm

Mef, a few people do. Most people just don't know how to deal with me, however, so they leave me alone.
What strikes me as amusing is the fact that the person who is the most scared of me is my chemistry teacher. Most teachers lump me in with the rest of the straight A/never talk people, but for whatever reason she always acts as if I'm going to hurt someone. (Which, for the record, I have never done in her class.)


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14 Feb 2007, 3:09 am

I will be feared until I prove to people I'm not as bad as I used to be.



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14 Feb 2007, 10:24 am

Yes I sometimes think that people fear me but I never showed violence in my life. They fear becouse they misunderstand or sometimes completely dont understand



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14 Feb 2007, 6:02 pm

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...That's because they know what I'm capable of. When I was going to school, and someone angered me, I went berserk. I hurt people physically, I threw things, I damaged computers... It was horrible. ...


Oh God, I went through that... "phase", if I can be permitted to call it that... in fourth to seventh grade. I behaved fine... unless provoked in some way or another - then I went through all the violent crap (fortunately I never damaged anything extremely valuable... the glass in a window in 6th grade, but that's it). Could such unexpected behavioral issues be part of the Aspie experience?

Off topic there. Just wanted to reply to that first.

I have no idea if I'm feared. Sometimes I think I fear other students, in fact.

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Probably, I also went berserk when provoked, and the worst thing was that I couldn´t remember what happened. My teachers were so stupid that they didn´t think anything was wrong. Furthermore, one even asked my parents if they didn´t fear me.
I had associated that to my epilepsy, though, because it stopped at the same time that "phase" did.



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18 Feb 2007, 2:32 pm

Sometimes people fear me because I give off little or no friendly body language, and that worries them. Sometimes I stand quietly in a corner watching everyone and it creeps them out :D



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23 Feb 2007, 9:46 pm

I'm not sure if it's fear but people definitely make pains to avoid me in general. I've been told that I have an aloof aura about me even though that is not at all my intention. I am a very big man but I am not sure how potentially violent I seem to other people. If I seem potentially violent people have good reason to fear me. I have a very high breaking point at this point in my life because I am afraid of how easily I could seriously hurt another person.



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23 Feb 2007, 11:17 pm

I don't mind if people fear me, but it's kinda sad at the same time.



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23 Feb 2007, 11:25 pm

If people feared me, my personality would reverse it.

Anyways, I way too light-hearted to have anybody fear me.



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23 Feb 2007, 11:39 pm

The only time people are afraid of me is when I'm outside at night. I've even seen people cross the street to avoid meeting me in the dark. That's probably because, as one friend of mine put it, in the dark I "look like a linebacker". I have never, ever been disturbed walking alone at night, possibly because in the dark I am very large and scary-looking. :lol:


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24 Feb 2007, 1:56 am

Maybe they do. Most people seem to ignore me.


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24 Feb 2007, 3:21 am

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Maybe they do. Most people seem to ignore me.

Yeah. I get ignored too, but I take no notice of it.



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26 Feb 2007, 12:43 pm

people fear me too but not just because of my anger and throwing stuff but because they heard me work out the most effective way to burn down my school (no i wasnt planning to do so it somehow appeared in a conversation) but you can use fear to your advantage in cases but i have close friends who know i dont like being that and that helps.