General hate for many people

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Do you feel hate/agression for people you don't even know? I do. Like, when I'm walking in a city and hear someone talking bullsh*t, I'll think "god please do us a favour and die". When I'm buying groceries and someone is walking too slowly in front of me or standing in my way for ages I'll get agressive (only on the inside though). Most of the people I have to deal with are shallow and stupid in my eyes.

I never act on this agression, but I insult the people in my head to fight it.

Yes I do, often, but then I give them some slack because I dont like the feeling that I think I'm any better......... vanity and intolerance seems as ugly as stupidity. the anger goes away if you try and be tolerant.

....and when you give people some slack, you often discover you were wrong, that they are interesting in ways you couldn't predict

and its nice to have some friends, and thats the only way you ever make friends, by not hating everyone

I do too, but I try to keep in mind that people are simply different. They would probably find things about me annoying or stupid too, which is fine by me as long as they keep it to them selves.

It is something else if people is bothering me or not doing their job, but then too I try to keep in mind that they are not me, they probably have their reasons and me being angry is never constructive anyway.

My friend and I created an "acronym" (ok it's not really a word but you can pronounce it) for the way we feel about a lot of people. We find ourselves often typing "PAS" when we are chatting to each other.

People are...

I think similar things it's just my inner Support Villain speaking out

I know how you feel, I do this all the time... doing my own research, I've come to the conclusion that it mostly stems from repressed emotions or a past trauma you may associate with the person you hate.

I totally agree. It can be such hell. It makes me wonder if there is any hope for the human race. I hate stupid drivers, etc...if only my car could talk lol. I can't get over a lot of peoples stupidity and it gets to me. Plus it's hard for me to "put myself in their shoes". I have a lack of empathy in that department. I always seem to get reminded that "oh maybe they are having a bad day..." Riiiight....the whole world must be having one all on the same day...everyday.

Recently, but I try my best not to.

I used to, it's a defense mechanism, probably because you've been hurt in the past and do not understand the way NTs operate.

Anger can then turn into envy and depression, so maybe it is better to be mad.

Sometimes I get a hatred of women in their 60s. I don't know why, I just do. Not all, obviously, and it's nothing personal, I just mean random ones in the street. They always seem to have this bitchy sort of look, and they tend to stare at you with fierce-looking eyes. They also seem to think they are ''cooler'' than everyone else, by wearing trendy clothes and having a stylish handbag. Sometimes I believe women in their 60s are developing a fear of getting old, and so try to look and act young again.

Also teenage girls and girls in their early 20s (around my age) irritate me too. I like ones who are more like me; just wear T-shirt and jeans and have the same sort of hairstyle as me. Girls who dress up like they're going to the Ritz really do annoy me, and also chavvy girls annoy me too because they always seem to be rough or aggressive-looking, and give off an impression that says ''I don't take s**t from anyone.''

Babies and kids are the worst of all, they irritate the f**k out of me and there seems to be more babies and small kids around more than ever. Again, it's nothing personal, and I would smile at a quiet baby or child. In fact, actually, I prefer babies to toddlers.

Men generally don't irritate me at all, they usually seem more polite and respectful, and don't tend to push past me in shops but instead they wait their turn or smile and say, ''excuse me'' or, ''sorry'' or whatever when they want to come by, and they say it in a way that doesn't annoy me and they don't make me feel like some idiot that always gets in everyone's way. But some men might irritate, like the ones in their 60s because they tend to gawp at me like I'm some freak, just like women in their 60s do. Must be a phase people go through, I think. But women are worse.

I don't hate anyone really but their behavior is an item of hatred.

The type of behavior that tend to hate are by certain people who go around and stir things up by making comments openly in front of other people for what they wear or how they hold their hair styles.

I had run into some of that behavior last year by a group of young girls dressed like prostitutes who had the nerve to make fun of me for being a woman and wearing a buzz cut. (It was summer and I had kept the look after doing it for charity). I got up and called them weird and they called me ugly and laughed. I looked them and called them pretty and then went, "No, I changed my mind you're ugly too. Also put some clothes on hoes." I said this walking away.

I also hate it when you are walking somewhere and someone immature pokes their head out of a car and shouts things at you. It's repulsive.

They shout things at you for no apparent reason at all.

I do too, especially when there are people buzzing around in front of me, talking. I usually chalk this sort of feeling up to a symptom of a meltdown I usually experience due to sensory overload. I also accept that as much as I would like to think "healthy thoughts" about people (i.e. not think about decapitating the woman speaking loudly into her cell phone on a crowded bus), I really need my violent angry thoughts to get through the meltdown without any outbursts.