psybot wrote:
if i "dust myself off and try again" and continue to go to these clubs maybe once a week or something will i feel better and actually start to feel alright?
I'm not sure if New Zealand is maybe different, but around where I live in the US, I find that most people go to clubs with friends, and if you show up by yourself people just think you are wierd. So if I do that I usually just end up feeling worse than when I went in.
Sometimes it has to be done though, just to get out of the house and actually observe what goes on, otherwise how would we know?
I think the exception to this, however, might be the little neighborhood local pub, in the early evenings, where older working people relax and everybody is a regular. But not the Disco, I repeat: NOT the disco, not alone. Never go alone to the disco unless you are just on a mission of observation.
Anybody please feel free to agree or agree, but that's my two cents.
Cheers