Interests that you CAN'T talk much about...
For me, its more Im into weird psychology and LGBT issues and stuff. Or making sexual references to people who arent my close friends. Otherwise, as long as I dont talk excessively about a subject, normally Im fine. I just have to make sure to track the persons interests cause after a while if I've went on and on about something then the person looses track of what Im saying pretty quickly.
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Try embalming and human decomposition. My two interests at the moment. Oh, I'll talk about them anywhere, just bring up a dead celebrity!
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One of my main interest are psykologi and drugs in general. (guess i spelled it wrong, english are not my native etc...) but since i am an ex drugabuser, and all of my friends are ex users, they forbid me to talk about it, and i think that are frustrating. i also loves litterature, but addicts that are not on the spectrum have offcourse not read a thing so i cant talk about that either Yup ypu guessed it right, i lose friends faster than nt`s gainn them
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I love drugs too haha. It depends on the drug though. I mean I'm fascinated by drug culture and I'll read up on heroin, crack, or meth but I know to never touch the stuff because I see what it can do to people. I also won't touch any synthetic uppers or downers unless its prescribed. I WILL however trip on mushrooms or acid every month or so. I'm also somewhat curious about taking molly. And of coarse theres pot...I smoke alot of pot. Like alot. Lol
I love drugs too haha. It depends on the drug though. I mean I'm fascinated by drug culture and I'll read up on heroin, crack, or meth but I know to never touch the stuff because I see what it can do to people. I also won't touch any synthetic uppers or downers unless its prescribed. I WILL however trip on mushrooms or acid every month or so. I'm also somewhat curious about taking molly. And of coarse theres pot...I smoke alot of pot. Like alot. Lol
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My 2 biggest ones are skateboarding and guitar/bass guitar. I love skateboarding, but my knowledge of teams and the "corporate" world of skateboarding is pretty limited. I don't watch the X-Games or anything. There's a few pro-skaters that I enjoy watching, usually they have to have a certain style that's similar to mine (gnarly old school ramp rulers, like Tony Trujillo, Sammy Baca, Creature team). I will tear up any skatepark any time, but once you start talking to me about teams and companies, i got nothing. And I really could care less about local competitions and demo's either. I skate for myself, nobody else.
I also play bass in a metal band, and let me tell you, I know how to write some good bass leads and I also write most of my bands guitar riffs. Not to brag or anything but they're damn good riffs, and alot of people like my band. However I can't really tell you much about the mechanics of bass and guitar. I play a Dean Explorer, and I also like the sound and look of Fender P's but still, I feel like my knowledge of guitars and bass is somewhat limited so I'm usually pretty silent when people are going on about 'which amplifier is the best' or 'the action on the frets'.
i can't tell you how many posts i've read so far on WP that just absolute describes me and this one as well definitely does. I for example is really interested in metaphysical stuff like spiritual awakening and different energy healiing work,, i am spot on intensely interested in it to the point that i will go on entire three day long road trips just to experience bliss but compared to all my other friends including my gf who is interested in it too, i can't say i've read all the Ekhart Tolle books, know the different influential profits and spiritual teachers, metaphysical this and metaphysical that and not to mention barely know much about Jesus resurrection which most people interested in this would be shocked that at.
I however do have some interests where I do know a lot about such as high voltage electrical pylons however the drawback i have on these kind of interests is that hardly anyone else in the world including people with AS are interested in them.
Allakara, I never even really realized there was that much to know about electrical pylons (as there probably is). How did you get into that subject?
Hmm... My personal interests shift a lot. I tend to hyperfocus on whatever catches my mind, until I've collected and exhausted all the resources for knowledge I can find and then I move onto something else. Like one month, I spent an entire month learning how to make perfect pancakes. Then another month, I spent the entire month learning everything I could possibly get my hands on about pulled pork. And another month on Hokkien and Cantonese stir-fry. This month has been about popcorn.
I tend to stick with cooking interests as of late, because although I would love to learn an instrument or something else, I don't think I have the dedication it would take to stay that focused that long. It's also a lot cheaper to get a specialty pot or ingredient than to buy an instrument for a short term hobby. And the end result of my studying is fabulous food that I can share with others, although I wouldn't dare telling any of my friends how long I worked to perfect it.
Love this thread!
The interests I don't usually talk about because I don't want to be called a Tomboy is Im a big sports fan. Watching the Nrl Im a big footy fan my favourite team is The Sydney Roosters. I love watching the Grid Iron and my favourite team is Dallas Cowboys. I love the V8 Supercars go Craig Lowndes, World Wrestling Go DX!! ! Shawn Michaels, I love Holden Commodores. I used to be involved in a Holden Commodore Club and two other clubs. I used to hang out with other car lovers at a local car park every Friday night and go on car cruises all the time. I love going four wheel driving, I love anything to do with cycling, bmx and mountain biking. Im into Astronomy and I used to be in a Astronomy club. I love the show Time Team and anything on Archeology. I love Dinasaurs, I have a collection of 80s memrobilia and Im into the paranormal, spiritual and ghosthunting.
Guys....read the original post a little more carefully...
I don't mean interests you can't talk much about because people don't wanna hear about it
I mean interests you can't talk much about because YOU DON'T KNOW AS MUCH ABOUT THE SUBJECT AS YOU SHOULD.
You have an interest in something, but not to the point where you're able to hold a good conversation
Like me with skateboarding...
Yes, I love it and I skate as much as I can but the minute someone starts talking about local contests, huge commercial skate teams, or the X-games, the most I'll do is nod my head and say "Cool" and I won't have anything to contribute to the conversation because my knowledge is limited. I like the act of skateboarding rather than actually following the sport itself.
Make sense?
I'm very mechanically inclined, but I lack the vocabulary for it. When someone asks me how I fixed something I sound like an idiot. I'm caught just pointing to things and saying well I cleaned this off, got the rust off that over there, and replaced this part here.
I'm more of a do'er than a talker, except when I need to figure something out that I can't find the answer to on my own. People get so frustrated with me when I bug and bug em to help me find the answer. I can be relentless (in hindsight). When I was younger, getting me to focus on something else that I already had a handle on and didn't need help with was the adults way of telling me to leave them alone; like when I was 10 and obsessed with exactly how a baby was conceived and born. The way they acted, you'd have thought I was asking what position my mother was in when she was having sex. They acted like the question was indecent. Come to think on it, they usually act as if all my questions are indecent (which were/are not). We had the "talk" in school, but they didn't go into enough detail for my liking.
yes. very much yes. i'm way into music, always have been from the womb. became very fascinated with playing it, too. not that i'm that good. but kinda the same thing as you. i wouldn't know gear to save my life. i really wish i could carry on with my brothers and his friends, they know about amps and pickups and truss rods and action and everything. i only have a vague notion that some kinds of wood are better for different parts of the guitar. that's really it. also, i went to music school for a year. i still don't know that s**t, and all anyone around me did was talk shop about it. so it's really awkward for me not to know it.
and about letting people have the floor.. the interesting thing there is that i think you have to be savvy enough to ask the right questions to get people going on it.. i mean.. you can't really always just go.. "what's xxxx?" and expect anything out of them. it kinda has to be more specific to get a good learnin' from them. does anybody agree with that?
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I have a couple. The main one is amusement park rides. Now, I told this story one other time on here, but I went to Coney Island (the Cincinnati one, not the New York one) and they had a Tilt-A-Whirl. I ended up telling the ride operator about how they totally reconfigured how the ride runs, so that the ride operators can just run it while sitting down. I must have went on for about 10 minutes about it. It was kinda funny in retrospect.
I can't talk much about video games either, because my game choices aren't mainstream. :/
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