Corvus wrote:
BeautyWithin wrote:
I think the real reason why people get so sad when someone else dies is that they are faced with their own mortality. Yes, close family and friends will miss the person who has passed, but why is it that complete strangers cry at funerals?
Shared thought or 'expression?' Laughing is contagious, yawning is contagious. I see no reason why crying, the opposite of laughing, would differ any. I think it kind of sets a 'group' commonality type deal. It would seem a bit off to walk into a room where half the people are crying and half are laughing, don't you think?
Hmm, I never thought of it like that.
I've been to a good many funerals and I always wondered why complete strangers ended up crying.
I remember when my Dad died...at his funeral I put on his cologne on him and I even did a reading and sang with the choir. There were a whole bunch of people who had never met him and they were crying their daylights out - I was always confused by that. I got a lot of flack for being 'cold' and 'unfeeling'. I still remember thinking that crying wasn't going to bring him back, so why do it? I did cry a little in private though... but it was more about regrets about not really getting to know him or not spending a lot of time with him. The only thing that I really felt though was that I lost some of my history when he passed away.