How to react when...

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... someone is avoiding you?

There's this girl at work I really like and I feel really at ease with (never happened to me before). Well, that was before Christmas break. Since Christmas it feels like she acts differently towards me. Knowing her it may be unconsciously. But still... It drives me crazy and I don't know what I should do or say.

If she's avoiding you, she might not be interested in you.

I do like her in that way, but I realize that she's out of my league and she's seeing someone atm. But I still want us to be friends.

I just felt so at ease with her. Usually I always have to overthink things during a social interaction. Can I say something? If yes, what? When can I say it? How should I say it? With her, I don't have that. It just went so natural (before Christmas). At first I didn't know why. But it seems that she's has some Aspie traits...

Sometimes women feel like prey with predators after them. The more you pursue her, maybe the more she is uncomfortable.