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marshall
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11 Jul 2011, 8:04 pm

Perhaps you could apply some kind of skin irritant to your member such that an erection becomes unbearably painful to sustain. Or simply gain a whole lot of weight so your gut hides it.



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11 Jul 2011, 10:05 pm

This belongs in the adult section, there might be kids on this forum.



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12 Jul 2011, 12:12 am

Wearing baggy clothes helps. If your shirt comes down far enough it's easy to hide.

I think the topic itself is fine here, the actual question deals with the social aspect of it, and nothing explicitly sexual (unlike some of the replies :roll: ).


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25 Apr 2016, 2:13 pm

My advice is to NOT worry about it.

Males get erections. It is natural. Thay can happen at any moment. It's completely normal.

HOWEVER, erections shouldn't be shown to people unless that other person is OK with you doing so and that you are both over the age of 16.


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