Making new friends is impossible for me!

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xHomerOx
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15 May 2016, 5:12 pm

Each time i try to make new friends, they start to reject me until the point of hating, i don't know what am i doing wrong, i have praticed social skills since i know i have Asperger, but i won't lie, i knew it wasn't work for me because my brain is wired different from NT people. I have read here that some Aspies have a lot of friends and could make rellationships, in my case the girls reject me over and over again until the point i started to hate them. I only have around six friends and they know i have Asperger because my brother told them, but i try not to talk about the topic. What I hate most is that the NT people do crazy things in a group and it's look like normal but in my case when i say something crazy, the people start to think and say in most cases "Wtf with this guy?". All my life is like that, I would appreciate any tips you can give me. I know there are NTs and Aspies here and I know that the only solution is to commit suicide, but i don't want to do it. BTW Is it possible to have friendships and relationships being Aspie? Thanks in advance!! !
I'm doing Mindfulness with a psycologist and i go to the psychiatrist. I have been in several groups of social skills but i dropped out because i knew it wouldn't work with me. I stopped going into the neuropsycologist because there is no more she can do to help me because i think that there are things that you have before being born and will never have for example the NT 'intuition'! !!



Ganondox
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15 May 2016, 9:42 pm

The reason it's okay when the NTs do it is because they do it with their friends, and their friends know they are just joking. So you need to gradually warm up to people before you just do weird stuff, and figure out what people actually find funny rather than just weird.


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