How do you cope with loneliness?

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i have never been lonely. maybe that's my loss some say, but who cares except them.

I play video games around 10 hours a day, and eat bad things. I don't seem to get out of that horrible habit. This is like an addiction to me and I am eager to get help.

Golly. 10 hours a day? Keep it down to 5 and you should be good.

Try and eat good things like apples/oranges. You will feel better. Also try to get sunlight/exercise. It is good for autism and good for people just generally.

Remember, its so much a question of not doing something (video games) but a question of doing something fun or social to replace it. I would encourage reading, not necessarily fiction, but anything really is less numbing on mind for people.

I was not entirely dissimilar to you. PM me if you would like help or advice!

Eggs help with vitamin D. If your poor like me and prefer not to run your fridge in winter, incorporate eggs into baking with the use of a microwave. Something else i was quite interested in for a while is the potential use of calcium from eggshells as eggshells have high content of calcium but you have to specially process them so they are safe to use. I have a dehydrator, it needs further exploration.

I keep myself busy in different activities, and I travel a lot. And when you travel you experience different things. You feel lively , you feel good and ultimately you grow. So travel as much as you can, you will never feel alone.

I love to travel Ferry and I hope to do it again.

Not very well, at this point.

Aye.

I try to combat loneliness by walking, reading, watching tv and interacting with others online.

But it can be rather depressing having no one to speak to almost every single day. If my landlord allowed me to have pets then my mood would invariably improve.

I envy those on the spectrum who have special interests.

Summer_twilight, I am glad to know that people are there who loves to travel , and you are one of them. And what do you think, travel is good for coping up with loneliness ? or some other activities are needed.

Let's see... Had you lived the supposed dream life hmmmm.....

"Great sex... I'm going to go brag about it to my friends while you lay there and I forget about you existing. Oh and if we both have a child you are paying for it completely."

x11-17 times.

Oh and fuckbag flipping you off and getting x30-50 is a potential rapist and probably relied on prostitutes. Even if he managed to get one night stands, one night stands are not your way of life.

What is going to be funny for fuckbag one day in his interrupted one night stands that you do not have to face and why I am glad I am single and a virgin:

"Oh sweet I can't wait to get this hot girl as my dream! Looking fine in those shorty shorts!"

"I'm READY ALL NIGHT BABE!"

"....... Can I leave?"

"That's not the safe word after what I get to do to you all night long babe. Especially where you go to the bathroom."

In reality good sex is earned in a long lasting marriage.

Fuckbag is going to brag nonstop about his quick dick massages, oh believe me fuckbag will not be quiet about it.

But don't care about fuckbag. Fuckbags mistreat a lot of people in life.

Oh and if you did manage to get that hot ass chick, what would you face?

"Get the f**k away from her she belongs to me. Not you!" and he would be holding a gun at you.

Pornstars it would be that except..... Well times uhmmmm....... hmmmm.... Well that number is too big to count and same with all of those other hot actresses.

Also in many instances, going to have to be controversial here to get a point, a bisexual girl cheating on you? A threesome right? Sorry that is Pornywood pal. In reality she'd just take her and her prissy hot friend and slam the door on you. Only time that would work out is.... Uhmmm... If you had some meth pipes.

Seriously be proud of who you are. I can tell you are saying I hate life. But just try to actually come to terms and life will happen. NOT I knew the terms.

Also Aspergers people can lie, but it is a: "I forgot lie." Right? I am not "Smokey the Bear". Be proud of the fact you are not paying child support.

You may have gotten the fact you make excuses and am not getting ahead in life a lot, but like a lot of people accepting you.

Reason is that you own up to it and try to honestly find a way around it.

Other people, what do they do? These people who get away with excuses?

Same reason why a murder commits another murder after leaving prison.

So don't make this famous: "I have been in Vietnam with the dangerous Vietcong excuse."

If you live by that, you will never be the person who made these great stories who managed to be SUCCESSFUL.

How did the poor kid get to being rich, well... I don't think when he was punched in the face nonstop and told he was not going to make it that he focused on what problems he had.

Rather, he focused on what solutions he could face and fix to get to there.

Now I understand that maybe there have been like I don't know 70% of the population that brag about the fact they eat oatmeal everyday and have a job that was easy to get and easy to accept, while you have to find what you need and can have.

I am a filmmaker, to remind you, but here is the thing. I have been mistaken for a guy who was going to make pornos or perhaps triumphanting films that show redeeming greatness rather than actually: a sci fi film.

I can get it, when you triumphant it feels like you are in kindergarden. When you are in the dumps and pushed out away from everyobe it feels like you are in Vietnam.

But the way to get out of this, is just simply taking it as living life. That is it. I promise you. That is it.

You do not need to hold up a huge loudspeaker, don't need to anything really.

The only thing that actually sets you back. Is what allows you to give excuses.

Rather live by excuses or by successes?

I can also understand you feel as though if you talk smart you sound like an old man, but ditch that idelogy too.

The normal ladies may feel the same way and it can feel weird too.

After they have well, turned 28 at 18 because of dealing nonstop with so many fuckbags.

I think it helps me if I focus on doing activities that I enjoy doing by myself. I am very introverted and I find that I get really stressed when I spend too much time around other people. At least when I am by myself I cannot get that stress, and I suppose an added bonus is it keeps me out of trouble.

One of my strong interests is something that a local group works on. It's not perfect for relieving loneliness but it really helps to be part of that, and it's for a really positive goal too.

It kinda freaked me out to read that many autistic women do environmental work like I do.... nature plus "the good of many"? -- just started reading about autism last winter, loads of issues but no one ever put it together... I'd been doing these things for years. But it fits so many things I love, and the "common interest" thing just worked better for me to socialize around... It might have helped to know why though.

I don't really cope with it all that well. I guess I just try to lose myself in the things I love to do, when I can (a.k.a when I don't have a whole ton of schoolwork). Listening to the song Astronaut by Simple Plan is very therapeutic. I have one friend in particular who I always love to talk to when I can, so talking to her helps, I guess. I really don't know though.

I am not the most productive of individuals at the best of times, but time spent in isolation seems to only compound the problem. I usually eat and drink too much, stare vacantly into space and mindlessly watch re-runs of South Park. Despite a lack of interest in anything, it's getting to the point in my life where I feel I must study something. Rather depressingly, I feel like I have wasted the last eight years of my life.

I don't cope; it triggered my depression. I used to deliberately isolate myself because I genuinely believed I didn't need friends, that I could be happy all by myself. And then, when I lost contact with my old friends and couldn't get them back, then the negative side-effects of isolation started to reveal themselves.

The biggest mistake of my life was believing you could be happy alone. I don't know if I'll ever be able to recover from this. I can't get my old friends back and I can't make new friends, and the longer I spend alone the worse it gets.

I hear alcohol is a good escape route. That might not be a bad idea to try, that or bury yourself in video games. They make for a good solitary activity.