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AspieDannie
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06 May 2006, 10:06 pm

This is daniel. There is four asperger kids at school. I'm one of the four. Theres this one called Jay. He has aspergers. HE IS MEAN TO ME!

Aspergers kids arent supposed to be mean to me. Normal kids are. I dont care about normal kids. I care about asperger ones.

Jay was nice to me for a long time. We played at lunch. We talked about things. We discussed life. Now he is mean to me.

Jay says i play rough. Jay says im too loud. Jay says a lot of things. This was on wednesday. I know he walks home. I walk home this day. I walk to find him. I find him. I ask him why he doesnt like me anymore. He still says i play rough. I ask what is he talking about. He says i play too damn rough. I tell him to go play with normal kids then. He gets pissed. He slaps me. Nobody slaps me. You slap me. I slap you back. I slap Jay back. Not hard. Just in the arm. He stars running away. I run after him. He starts screaming for help. He falls down while running. I feel bad. Some idiot spots him. This idiot man yells at me. What am i doing? I tell him to go screw himself. I run away home. I tell mommy nothing.

I go to school on thursday. Jays not there. I go to school on friday. Jays there. Jay demanded teacher to place his desk across the room. Jay wanted to be as far from me as can be. Teacher was annoyed. Talks to me. I tell her what happened. She doesnt make big deal out of it. I thought she would. She tells me to go sit down and try to keep calm.

Theres this kid Steve. He has aspergers. Hes smarter than me. Hes always calm for some reason. He looks at me weird. He tells me later on what my problem was. I tell him that jay didnt like my anymore. He asks why i hit him. I have aspergers. Now these people with aspergers dont like me anymore. Now what the hell am i supposed to do?



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06 May 2006, 10:18 pm

Treat them the way you want them to treat you. and if you are told you play to rough....apologize and try not to do that again. Aspergers or not, we are all pretty much the same. We all want acceptance and we all want our feelings validated. If you back off a bit I'm sure Jay will come around and be your friend again.



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07 May 2006, 2:19 am

You've just hit upon something, Dannie. We're not different from so-called NT's at all. The same hierarchies exist.


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07 May 2006, 6:07 am

I think this thread is supposed to be poking fun at us.



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07 May 2006, 3:58 pm

I think so too, read some of the authors other posts and it seems like we are being visited by someone with multiple personality disorder, or someone who is just playing a game with us. In one of his posts he acutally forgets what name he signed in under and leaves his other login names signature.



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07 May 2006, 4:29 pm

jonathan79 wrote:
I think so too, read some of the authors other posts and it seems like we are being visited by someone with multiple personality disorder, or someone who is just playing a game with us. In one of his posts he acutally forgets what name he signed in under and leaves his other login names signature.


Some weirdo, anyway... not good.



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09 May 2006, 10:51 am

Let us not judge about him.Let's be nice to him.If he has mental problems,he especially needs it.



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07 Jul 2006, 4:16 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I think this thread is supposed to be poking fun at us.

It's called "trolling."



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07 Jul 2006, 11:58 am

Wow! You guys are alot sharper than I am. I am just a doofus that takes everyone at face value.


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07 Jul 2006, 3:35 pm

Nothing annoys a smug innuendo so much as the piercing candor of a literal straight answer.



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07 Jul 2006, 9:05 pm

Aaron: Nothing annoys a smug innuendo so much as the piercing candor of a literal straight answer.

I was serious. Not kidding.

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07 Jul 2006, 9:40 pm

And why would my response give you any impression that I took you otherwise?



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07 Jul 2006, 9:51 pm

Probably because I don't understand you and there seems to be a "communication gap".


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07 Jul 2006, 9:56 pm

Indeed? Can you point out and explain whatever ambeguity?



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08 Jul 2006, 10:45 am

AaronAgassi wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I think this thread is supposed to be poking fun at us.

It's called "trolling."


The author explained himself, which did take a lot of courage, and I cannot say that this was trolling or a trick. It was just a misguided attempt to discuss his feelings. Also, I am curious as to why you brought this up, as it was back about 9 pages or so.


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08 Jul 2006, 11:06 am

Assuming AspieDannie is for real, I wonder what you take as misguided in his self expression? Or do you really mean, in his own conduct as he relates the tale? -In other words, his clueless naivety...

In any case, trollery or cyber-Munchhausen, however juvenile, can be a real menace on a forum of vulnerability and sympathy. A real parody should have some sharper and mor revealing ironic thrust then just cruel mockery at the expense of the disadvantaged or playing upon the synpathies of the mark. Neverhteless, we mustn't be too judgmental, as just such antisocial bullying may be the poor confused unfortunate's only way of reaching out!

And why did I revive this back post topic to begin with? - you ask... Well, actually, just insomnia.


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