do you hate people you don't know?

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I always feel angry for no reason at the preppy Hollister guys at my university--but that might be because they talk and go on Facebook in class...or maybe it's because I really dislike trendy clothing.

Yes, unfortunately. Not only I hate them, but also I have fantasies about wiping their smile off their faces with a nuclear explosion. I think I can't stand happy people. This makes me a horrible person. Can't help it.

I'm usually neutral with strangers , though I do have prejudices against some groups of people (chavs, rudeboys and dickheads in general).

I know exactly what you mean... There are people that I've never talked to before that I intensely dislike, probably just because they annoy me.

I try not to pass judgement on people I don't know. I always like to have a neutral approach

This. I might FEEL it toward them, but I force myself to be civil. I remind myself that I don't like it when people seem to dislike me for no reason, so I won't treat them the same way.

No, I don´t. But sometimes, when I get a bad feeling about the person, like if I sense they are not good human beings, I don´t like them. But I cannot talk about hate. Maybe in cases like Adolf Hitler and these people.

I don't like that almost everyone I meet in high school already knows my name when I've barely, if ever seen them before. They also somehow know some bastardised version of my personality too, and it's just confusing to me. I mean, within the first week or two almost everyone seemed to know who I was and I knew maybe 10 names at best. Even now I only know about 100 or so names at max; I'm terrible with names and honestly don't care about most of the people I meet.

not hate, but indifference.

The story of My life....
Especially in high school, A friend who went there knew about me before we had really met and i said really why? essentially because everyone was talking about me and my not yet tamed personality quirks that came out.
Apparently everyone somehow knew I was autistic and that especially pissed my off.


.. I feel i have essentially alienated the whole department at my college.. I at least feel alienated either because

1. i have made such foolish and embarrassing mistakes that I feel so uncomfortable and inferior that i just take a disliking to them and want nothing to do with them..

2. I don't like them because they the undergrad students not as smart as me (yes ego trip claim but the fact is i always know the answer, make the better discussion points with of course as many foot in mouth moments, but i smoke'em charred and falling apart like kindle under a flame thrower).

3. because of my AS I have trouble hiding my temper and mood so like everyone else who knows me they think they have to tip toe around me.

They are all very nice but with a few caveats I get so frustrated with them indulging and humoring the stupidity of the other students that I can't take them seriously as a scholar or teacher. I suspect they know i have autism which pisses me off even more because i don't want to be the Cuba gooding junior Radio charity case. And what really frustrates me is that just at the cusp of graduating i have managed to learn social norms to look like normal adult and have learned to control my temper.

I hate the department but love the subject. I hate it so much I do all i Can to avoid being in the department offices because I feel anxious and trapped. i refer to it as the gothic dark tower.

Because of my mistakes i feel less than a respectable human being to them so therefore I reject and hate them since I feel its too late to undo the impression I had left unwillingly and unwittingly. I guess they forget and therefore forgive and smile and say high but I can't Forget, and I therefore I always believe they remember too. Sometimes spontaneously i utter pray : Please God Forget Me.! !!

Advice to urist. Make all the mistakes social mistakes you can lad and learn the lessons now and instead of later as I had to.. High school social life at least for real people over here in america isn't worth it. Study hard get into a good university and then use all your learned social skills to get ahead during university and afterwards. don't worry about your reputation at high school because for the pathetic people that is their whole social life and the culmination of all they are capable which is why the popular jocks and bimbos skanks and useless do nothing play dungeons and drangons nerd-lingers, least over here in america, have such a romantic nostalgia for high school and work crappy jobs.

Actual hate is something I only feel for a few people. People who have done too bad things that I'll never forget or forgive. It's not something I feel towards people who just annoy me or are somewhat obnoxious.
I feel a lot of contempt though. Even when I was little I felt a lot of contempt for the other children. The more I learnt, the more I saw, the more I realised how phony, shallow and double faced people are, the more I despised them all when I thought consciously about it, which isn't that often, because people don't interest me. I only take interest in those I already like or love, and those few who manage to get my attention. I have no respect for people in general. I don't like them, I don't even see them unless they're someone I like, or they annoy me somehow. I just don't notice them otherwise.

NTs, that's who They have no other way of being.